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I have known people who take great comfort in the idea that they or their children have angels who watch over them.  Some have crossed the line from worshipping God to worshipping angels.

Yesterday I shared a quote from Greg Lucas’ book, Wrestling with an Angel, that Dianne particularly liked because Greg asserts that God, and not angels, stand watch over boys like Jake and Paul.  Here’s a shorter excerpt:

I believe it is God who watches, not any created being. And it is God who supplies whatever help is needed.

Jake’s care is not delegated. (Lucas, p. 73)

Greg used this passage to frame that section of the book:

“See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven.” Matthew 18:10

I think Greg is absolutely right to conclude that it is God who leads and calls into action, rather than angels having some sort of independent oversight.

  • Zechariah receives Gabriel’s good news that Zechariah will be the father of John the Baptist, but asks how it can be possible.  Here is the response: “I am Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God, and I was sent to speak to you and to bring you this good news.” (Luke 1:19) God will overcome the physical limitations to Zechariah and Elizabeth conceiving this child; Gabriel is the messenger.
  • Mary receives the happy news that she will be the mother of Jesus, and Gabriel again gives credit to God:  In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth (Luke 1:26). . . And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God. And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” (Luke 1:35-37)
  • Daniel is given incredible visions of the future, and help to understand them by a messenger from God: And he said to me, “O Daniel, man greatly loved, understand the words that I speak to you, and stand upright, for now I have been sent to you.” (Daniel 10:11)
  • Then Daniel is given this extraordinary view into the unseen spiritual realm, showing that there is real spiritual evil to contend with: Then he said to me, “Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words. The prince of the kingdom of Persia withstood me twenty-one days, but Michael, one of the chief princes, came to help me, for I was left there with the kings of Persia, and came to make you understand what is to happen to your people in the latter days. For the vision is for days yet to come.” (Daniel 10:12-14)
  • The book of Job is an example of Satan’s destructive, and completely limited, power on this earth.  The fallen angel, Satan, is afflicting Job only as much as God allows.
    • Job recognizes God as the effective actor in Job’s suffering. God does not correct him when Job gives God the credit for the suffering he is experiencing.
    • Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God and die.” But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women would speak. Shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips. (Job 2:9-10)
  • Jesus himself talks of the angels standing ready to do the Father’s bidding: Then Jesus said to him, “Put your sword back into its place. For all who take the sword will perish by the sword. Do you think that I cannot appeal to my Father, and he will at once send me more than twelve legions of angels?” (Matthew 26:52-53)

This isn’t to suggest that angels only serve as messengers.  Clearly, God gives them things to do, and not always things what we would call ‘comforting’ or ‘peaceful’:

“Therefore thus says the Lord concerning the king of Assyria: He shall not come into this city or shoot an arrow there, or come before it with a shield or cast up a siege mound against it. By the way that he came, by the same he shall return, and he shall not come into this city, declares the Lord. For I will defend this city to save it, for my own sake and for the sake of my servant David.”  And that night the angel of the Lord went out and struck down 185,000 in the camp of the Assyrians. And when people arose early in the morning, behold, these were all dead bodies. (2 Kings 19:32-35)

And at a key moment in all eternity, an angel ministers to Jesus:

And he withdrew from them about a stone’s throw, and knelt down and prayed, saying, “Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done.” And there appeared to him an angel from heaven, strengthening him. And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly; and his sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground. (Luke 22:41-44)

Angels are real and from the typical first words they utter – ‘fear not!’ – I gather their appearance and their abilities are incredible.

But they are created, just like we are.  It is far better to trust, cling to, ask forgiveness from, cry out to, and hope in the creator and sustainer of all things.  And if God uses angels to help us, as I expect he does, to thank the sender of help rather than the obedient angelic servants.

After all, they rejoice when sinners come to God!  “Just so, I tell you, there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”  Luke 15:10

And it has the advantage of being consistent with the Bible’s message that God is sovereign over all things – like disability, disease and suffering – rather than Satan.  Satan may hate us and seek to destroy us, but God alone has the final say, even in our times of deepest sorrow and pain.

I know I have emphasized how Greg’s book, Wrestling with an Angel, is a really good book for men – and not just dads of children with disabilities.

Turns out, women are encouraged by it, too!

Dianne pointed to this as a deep encouragement to her:

I do not believe Jake has a guardian angel assigned to protect him from harm.  I believe he has a Father who sits on His throne in heaven surrounded by an army of angels who intently watch the face of the Commander.  With one nod of the Almighty’s head, a legion of angels can be dispatched with unimaginable speed to preserve and protect.  Night and day they wait, watching the Father’s face as his eyes watch over my son.  I believe it is God who watches, not any created being. And it is God who supplies whatever help is needed.

Jake’s care is not delegated. (Lucas, p. 73)

Amen, my friend.

God has placed some great men in my life, brothers who encourage me deeply as they trust Jesus, love their wives, and lead their families.

Several of them have adopted children, sometimes with disabilities, into their families.

None of them puts on a happy face or pretends it is easy.  These are real men, understanding how weak they are and how big God is.  I am deeply grateful for their examples.

Mark and his wife have a bunch of children!  Julie writes beautifully about their experiences.

Martin commented earlier this week on my post regarding the birth of new baby how he has to fight for joy when hearing stories about adoptions with easy transitions.

Chris has written for this blog before, and his oldest boy is in the Sunday School my wife works in. I love seeing him at church as he wrangles his son, adopted without their knowing about his disabilities, to class.

And Greg, the author of Wrestling with an Angel, was recently asked five questions about the book and about adoption.

There are others I will remember after I post this.

God is kind to give us friends who point us to Jesus!  We do not need to walk this path alone!

In a word, yes.  And that means he is Lord over all creation, including those created with disabilities:

He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him. And he is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent. For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross. Colossians 1:15-20

One of my favorites, Matthew Henry, describes that Lordship this way:

Being created by him, (all things) were created for him; being made by his power, they were made according to his pleasure and for his praise. He is the end, as well as the cause of all things.

Which means, also according to his pleasure and for his praise, he will help us no matter what we face, no matter how hard it is, no matter how tempted we are by other things.  Jesus himself will prove decisive.

On Monday some dear friends had their first child.  She is beautiful, as all babies are to me.

She is entirely ‘normal’ in the sense that she didn’t come with any sort of complications related to disability.  I was completely happy for and with them, for lots of reasons.

That isn’t always the case.

I never wish for a disability on a child, of course.  But when a child is born into a family without any of the complications we experience, I sometimes hear a voice inside my own head whispering, “Happy for them, but I wish I didn’t have these extra things to deal with.”

But for this day, God silenced that voice.

There are moments we need to fight for joy in our family, especially when dealing with things that cause Paul pain like his seizure disorder we’re trying to figure out.

But I realized as I left the hospital Monday night that I had been completely free to enjoy this new dad and new mom and new baby – entirely happy for them.  My prayers with them had been unencumbered by any heaviness on my heart.  God gave that experience to me.

That’s a gift.

I expect I’ll need to fight that voice in my own head again.  But moments of pure enjoyment at another’s happy circumstance are very sweet.  And I thank God for those moments.

I know I make bold statements on occasion, and I try to be intentional about them.  But I recently read a bold assertion that made me stop and think about how intentional the author really was in making the statement.

In her very interesting chapter on Leviticus 21, Dr.  Johanna Dorman drops in this assertion:

“Although David feels a deep hatred for blind and deaf persons . . .  (2 Sam 5:8)” (Dorman, p. 26).

I remembered the Biblical reference, but I did not recall concluding that David felt hatred towards people with these disabilities.  So I looked it up again:

And the king (David) and his men went to Jerusalem against the Jebusites, the inhabitants of the land, who said to David, “You will not come in here, but the blind and the lame will ward you off”—thinking, “David cannot come in here.” Nevertheless, David took the stronghold of Zion, that is, the city of David. And David said on that day, “Whoever would strike the Jebusites, let him get up the water shaft to attack ‘the lame and the blind,’ who are hated by David’s soul.” Therefore it is said, “The blind and the lame shall not come into the house.” 2 Samuel 5:6-8

Frankly, I don’t see the hatred.  David is being taunted – “even our weakest members could keep you out!” David responds in kind to the taunt.

It looks remarkably like school-yard behavior from my childhood – “You throw like a girl!”  “Oh, yeah, well, you ARE a girl!”  Thankfully, nobody died on the schoolyard.  But passions would rise at such words.

Both my ESV Study Bible and the MacArthur Study Bible agree that this was probably a taunt:

“The Jebusites probably meant that the fortifications were so strong that the city needed no able-bodied defenders.  David quotes their words in ordering the attack, referring to the Jebusites as “the blind and the lame.” ESV Study Bible, p. 549.

“The Jebusites taunted the Israelites and mocked the power of David by boasting that the blind and the lame could defend Jerusalem against him.” MacArthur Study Bible, p. 426.

Probably the greatest argument that it was only a taunt and not really about people with disabilities at all comes from the second half of Dr. Dorman’s sentence:

Although David feels a deep hatred for blind and deaf persons (2 Sam 5:8), he returns to Mephibosheth all the land of Saul, and invites him to eat regularly at his table (2 Sam 9:10-13).

Mephibosheth was lame, and ate at the King’s table.  Of course, David is honoring the promise he made to his dearest friend, Jonathan, but that did not need to include the invitation to eat at David’s table.  If he really felt hatred or revulsion, he could have made sure Mephibosheth’s needs were taken care of, but out of his sight.  Eating at the king’s table is a very intimate, personal affirmation of Mephibosheth’s standing before King David.

So, I think Dr. Dorman simply wasn’t careful, both because the Biblical reference doesn’t include people who are deaf at all, and because the reference isn’t really about hatred towards people with disabilities.

But statements like that start to bleed into the general assumptions about what a passage means or about the character of the person making the statement (in this case, David).   I can almost guarantee I will see that assertion about David again somewhere else.  Only that person might not be as careful as Dr. Dorman in providing the Biblical reference, further disconnecting the assertion from the source.

Mostly I take this as a personal warning that I should be careful in how I read (and write about) any Biblical passage.  The Bible is worth being careful about!

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.  And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. Jame 1:2-4

Today is an anniversary of sorts.  Six years ago today we learned that Dianne had cancer.  A few days after that we would learn it had already spread through her lymph system to her bones.

God has kindly helped us during these years.  Because of the nature of her cancer her oncologist has told us, “you’ll die with it; my job is to make sure you don’t die of it.”

Statements like that tend to make one a little more serious about life.  Serious, but also more aware of God’s daily help, and our constant need for his grace and mercy.  And that makes even cancer something that God uses to bring him glory and to increase our joy in him.

Cancer is a horrible disease.  I look forward to the day it will be conquered for eternity.

But until that day, I am grateful for promises, anchored in the perfect life, obedience, death and resurrection of Jesus.

And I’m grateful that for now God has spared Dianne’s life.  She is a constant encouragement to me, and I gather to others as well.

So thank you for indulging me as I replay this video from earlier this year.  And please join me in thanking God for this remarkable woman!

“The sum of your word is truth, and every one of your righteous rules endures forever” (Psalm 119:160).

Registration for the Children Desiring God Conference in March 2011 has just opened and the theme is excellent:  Holding Fast to the Word of Truth.

Brenda Fischer is preparing a new seminar on disability I’m looking forward to hearing: Disability, Autism, and the Tender Mercy of Our God.

I’ve been asked to broaden my subject, but disability will still be a key part of the presentation: Helping Families Deal with the Unexpected.

Please pray for us as we prepare, that God would be glorified above all and that we would help people see his powerful, sovereign, good, loving, kind hand over disability!

 

I had lunch with a dear brother on Friday, one of those men who stirs things up wherever he goes (in a good way).

He said more and more he’s ‘desperate’ for a movement of the Holy Spirit.  That’s a great word.  And it can apply to the not-yet as well as the right-now:

For we know that if the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For in this tent we groan, longing to put on our heavenly dwelling,  if indeed by putting it on we may not be found naked.  For while we are still in this tent, we groan, being burdened—not that we would be unclothed, but that we would be further clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life.  He who has prepared us for this very thing is God, who has given us the Spirit as a guarantee.

So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him.  For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil. 2 Corinthians 5:1-10

Paul’s inspired writings are a constant help.  He writes with understanding – we are burdened!  He encourages us that we can always be of good courage in Jesus.  And he reminds us that what happens in this life is really important; we aren’t just waiting around until we get to be with Jesus.

And it puts all the hardship and all the wonderful things associated with disability in proper perspective.  For those who trust in Jesus, only in this age do we groan; only in this age are we burdened.

I am not always of good courage – because I do not always walk by faith nor do I always seek to please him.  But Jesus never loses anyone he has called:

I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. John 10:28

Yes, being desperate for God is a very good thing!

Yesterday I had two blog posts, one here and one at Desiring God.

The two are directly connected.  The outrageous statements made on the video yesterday were birthed decades ago behind the closed doors of the academy.  Scholars get into their little tribes and in talking to each other come up with some pretty mysterious, sometimes evil, ways to look at the world.

This is not a rant against higher education.  I have been associated with higher education in some way for 16 of the past 20 years.  I have met many fine people, including Christian scholars seeking to help young people better understand the Bible.

But I have also seen the seductive peer pressure of the academy make otherwise extremely intelligent people behave badly, or at least without integrity.  If the ‘new’ and the ‘edgy’ are what is valued, then even the Bible will be read and studied from that perspective.

I hate that.

I’m not immune to that temptation.  Writing for this blog tempts me regularly to be ‘clever.’

But, in the end, I have only one note to ring:  God is sovereign.  That includes being sovereign over disability.

I don’t want to be clever about that; I just want people to trust Jesus.