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Yes, I’m  a day late and most people have already seen this post from Justin Taylor on Pastor John’s call 30 years ago yesterday.  But if you missed it, you simply must read it.  And if you saw it yesterday, read it again.

The clothes have changed, the huge cross is gone, and the voice has taken on a richer, sweeter quality, (if you wonder what I mean, listen to this Piper Candidacy Sermon Excerpt January 27, 1980) but the passion for God and his word remains.

Because of the giftings that God gave and sustained through Pastor John, many of us understand that dependence on God in the midst of hard things is a wonderful, hope-filled reality.  And we rejoice with Paul:

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.  Romans 8:18

Thank you, God, for giving us Pastor John and helping him show us who you really are.  And thank you for letting us join him in wanting to spread a passion for your supremacy in all things for the joy of all peoples through Jesus Christ.

Last Friday I posted on the World Magazine article that highlighted a church in Anoka specifically for people with developmental disabilities.  It generated more comments than usual, comments that were thought-provoking and passionate.  Rather than let those comments disappear into the past, and knowing there might be others who would like to enter into this discussion or who have other opinions, I’m going to post those comments again, each in their entirety.

Certainly there are areas of disagreement.  Disability and conflict typically go together in this culture.  And hopefully nobody is shocked that those of us dealing with disability directly will also experience disagreement at times, even though we frequently link arms in common cause.

The Bible is full of disagreements which demonstrate God’s sovereignty over all things.   Continue Reading »

“I am not suffering…People without Jesus are suffering. May we all be encouraged to share the Gospel,” Dianne Knight remarking on her cancer.

Reminder:  Dianne and other amazing mothers of children with disabilities will be gathering tonight (Tuesday) at 7:00 p.m.  Click here for more details. Even if you did not RSVP, if you are a mother in this situation, you are welcome to attend.

A Strange Anniversary

Five years ago today, Dianne went to see a surgical oncologist who confirmed that she has breast cancer.  By the end of that week it would be diagnosed as Stage IV cancer, having spread from her breast through her lymph nodes to her bones in her back and ribs.

Stage IV cancer is a strange thing.  As her doctors have said on more than one occasion, “you will die with it; our goal is that you don’t die of it.”  And, praise God, she is able to serve in the roles she loves best today, as mother and wife and member of the church.

To this day, Dianne, good mother that she is, counts the 17 days that Johnny was in the NICU as the hardest days of her life.  My hardest days were those following that cancer diagnosis, through chemotherapy, surgery and then radiation.

Hardest days, but not the worst days. Continue Reading »

The Star Tribune had a good summary of the impact of having a child with a disability on the financial planning of a family in today’s paper.  Appropriate levels of life and disability insurance, special-needs trusts, and other plans are all important and familiar to most families experiencing disability.  Many of those plans are driven by a concern about what the future will hold, both for the child and for the rest of the family.

But being prepared or knowledgeable is not the same as living without anxiety.  For me, those plans actually serve to raise my anxiety while I’m in the midst of thinking about and finalizing those plans.

Paul brought together both things – reasonableness and living without anxiety – in his closing of his letter to the Philippians:

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:4-7

Rejoice – always?  Yes, the Lord is at hand!  Do not be anxious about anything?  Pray that God will help in all that we need.  God will provide, even after we can no longer take care of our children with disabilities ourselves.

President Obama has been awarded the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize.  It is one of the most visible and prestigious awards in the world.

From the announcement of the award:

Only very rarely has a person to the same extent as Obama captured the world’s attention and given its people hope for a better future. His diplomacy is founded in the concept that those who are to lead the world must do so on the basis of values and attitudes that are shared by the majority of the world’s population.

Nominations for the award must be received by February 1. President Obama would have been in office less than 10 days before being nominated.

On his second full day in office, he rescinded the Mexico City Policy, which prevented the U.S. government from funding clinics or groups that offered abortion-related services overseas, even if funding for those activities came from non-government sources.  Apparently expanding abortion services are the values the Nobel Prize Committee believes the majority of the world shares.

The President has been in office 262 days.

At 2005 rates, 861,369 babies have been aborted in the United States since he became president.

How many of those babies were aborted simply because they had a disability?

I do not share the Nobel Prize Committee’s source of hope for a better future.  But I do have a hope:

He established a testimony in Jacob
and appointed a law in Israel,
which he commanded our fathers
to teach to their children,
that the next generation might know them,
the children yet unborn,
and arise and tell them to their children,
so that they should set their hope in God
and not forget the works of God,
but keep his commandments;
and that they should not be like their fathers,
a stubborn and rebellious generation,
a generation whose heart was not steadfast,
whose spirit was not faithful to God.

Psalm 78:5-8

World Magazine last month ran an article on a church in Anoka which specifically serves those with disabilities.  The article describes the work of one man, Don Anderson, who decided to actively pursue ministry with and for those with developmental disabilities.  World Magazine summarizes it this way:

So instead of trying to integrate the disabled into the church of the able, Anderson, now 52, integrates the able into the church of the disabled. Now an ordained pastor, he holds a church service twice a week where the developmentally disabled sing in the choir and lead the music, take the offering, read Scripture when they can, offer prayer requests, and make as much joyful noise as they want to.

For his work, Don Anderson and his church, Christ for People, has been nominated for a Hope Award for Effective Compassion by World Magazine.

Not everyone wants him to win. Continue Reading »

Please Respond Soon!

The event for mothers and the event for fathers of children with disabilities are both coming up soon.  It would be helpful if you could contact the two coordinators if you plan on attending.  If you’re not sure, still come if you can!

If you live outside of the Twin Cities area and cannot attend, consider arranging (or asking your church to arrange) one in your area.  Disability is hard.  Parenting a child with a disability in this culture is really hard.  Joining together with other women or other men, encouraging each other in the faith, supporting each other in the difficulties associated with disability, veteran parents mentoring new parents – God moves in powerful ways through these gatherings.

And we now have access to Pastor Kempton’s talks at Joni Camp in August!  While the audio is a little hard to hear at times, it is worth it!  If you’re not sure, Dads, about attending the fathers event, listen to this and you’ll want to come!

Turner, Kempton Talk 1 at Joni Camp Minnesota Aug 2009

A special event just for mothers of children with disabilities is happening next Tuesday, October 13 at 7:00 p.m. in the south metro!  You can find more information here.

Wonderful things happen when God’s people gather together to proclaim his goodness and sovereignty!  If you doubt me (since I obviously wasn’t there), here are some evidences from a gathering a few months ago.

Disability is hard, and God is good to provide for all of our needs.  And isn’t God especially good to provide them through other people experiencing the same things we are with our children!

God has used certain couples in our lives to encourage us and build us up as a family to keep treasuring and trusting Jesus.  Jan and Mark Lacher are such a couple.  You might be familiar with Jan as she wrote the very helpful Creations of God Impacted by Disability that can found in our resource library.

Recently Jan wrote to me another reason why we praise God for Bethlehem and its leadership.  With her permission, I’ve included most of that email of a couple weeks ago below.

To give context, Jan and Mark attend Bethlehem’s North Campus with their four children.  Michael is their youngest and lives with significant disabilities. In addition to the time she has spent in hospitals with Michael, Jan has also spent time there as a nurse.

This past Sunday, Mark and I were talking to Jon Grano (Bethlehem’s Pastor for Operations) about handicap decals being placed on the floor in areas that could be designated for wheel chairs.  While the north site is extremely accessible, visibility is not great if you are in the middle of a back row in a wheel chair as (a congregant with a disability) was this past Sunday.

As Jon, Mark, and I were talking, Pastor John was leaving and walked down our aisle.   Continue Reading »