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On Monday the Desiring God Conference for Pastors begins.  You can get more information about this conference and the speakers here.

The theme:  The Powerful Life of the Praying Pastor: In His Room, with the Family, Among the People of God.

When pastors have a really big view of God as sovereign over all things, when they love the Word of God and preach out of their knowledge AND affections, when they pray earnestly to God who has promised to supply every need, their people are better prepared for disability!

Not just the families experiencing disability – everybody has been prepared to engage this issue, sometimes through radical acts of service in love!

Please, pray for these 1,600+ pastors who are gathering.  May God raise up hundreds more churches impacting thousands more families like ours with the joy of God’s goodness and sovereignty over disability.

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From “Race, Gender, and Genetic Technologies: A New Reproductive Dystopia?” by Dorothy Roberts in Signs: The Journal of Women in Culture and Society, 2009, v. 34, no. 4, p. 792:

Brian Skotko’s survey of 985 mothers who received postnatal (after birth) diagnoses of Down syndrome for their children similarly discovered that many of the mothers were chastised by health care professionals for not undergoing prenatal testing (emphasis mine):

“Right after [my child] was born, the doctor flat out told my husband that this could have been prevented or discontinued at an earlier stage of the pregnancy,” wrote one mother who had a child with DS in 2000. A mother who had a child in 1993 recalled, “I had a resident in the recovery room when I learned that my daughter had DS. When I started to cry, I overheard him say, ‘What did she expect? She refused prenatal testing.’” . . . Another mother reported, from her experience in 1997, “The attending neonatologist, rather than extending some form of compassion, lambasted us for our ignorance in not doing prior testing and for bringing this burden to society—noting the economical, educational, and social hardships he would bring.” Regarding a postnatal visit, a mother who had a child in 1992 wrote, “[My doctor] stressed ‘next time’ the need for amniocentesis so that I could ‘choose to terminate.’” (2005, 70–71)

As a result of such pressure, many pregnant women now view genetic testing as a requirement of responsible mothering (Harmon 2007).

Again we must be clear: there is nothing wrong with receiving genetic testing for the purpose of serving the needs of the child.  What is assumed above, however, is that when an ‘anomaly’ is discovered, the child will be aborted.

Let us individually work to change those assumptions, for the sake of the child, the parents, and the medical community that includes too many members who have lost their way.

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Brian Stotko, Children’s Hospital Boston Clinical Genetics Fellow, Down Syndrome Program, wrote last week that a new, non-invasive test for Down syndrome is nearing reality:

But now scientists have learned how to quantify the fetal copies of the 21stchromosome, the genetic basis for Down syndrome, with a simple blood test taken in the first trimester. These tests would be safer, faster, and, most likely, cheaper than anything available today.

Because the current tests are invasive and are risky for the child, many parents choose not to test.  But with this new test, Dr. Stotko expects that nearly every pregnant woman will know in the first trimester if her baby has Down syndrome.  Dr. Stotko references the 92% rate for aborting these children using the current tests and asks the obvious question: will the births of babies with Down syndrome begin to decrease because of this testing?

Of course what he means is, will the decrease in births accelerate.  With a 92% abortion rate, we are already experiencing a significant decline in the births of children with Down syndrome, even though many women choose not to test.

I am not against this new test; knowing things about a child before he or she is born can be very helpful in serving the child’s medical needs.  I am against tests being used in a search-and-destroy matter.  And I do not mean that from the perspective of parents.  I am far more concerned about how doctors, medical systems, and insurers behave, because their current behavior generally is not in the interests of the children with Down syndrome being born.

Dr. Stotko addresses that issue as well:

Part of their decision will be based on the information they receive about Down syndrome from their medical providers. Yet, the majority of medical students argue that they get minimal education on children with intellectual disabilities; and nearly half of obstetric fellows claim their residency training is “barely adequate” to “nonexistent” in terms of how to counsel would-be parents of a child with intellectual disabilities. Some physicians who do routinely deliver a prenatal diagnosis also admit to purposely describing Down syndrome in negative terms. Not unexpectedly, then, many mothers feel that they receive inadequate, incomplete and sometimes offensive information about children with this condition.

I have no romantic notions that providing better education to doctors-in-training will turn this tide and create a whole generation of doctors who encourage mothers to let their children live.  But I think it might help.

Closer to home, I wonder what the church will do.  Will we stand for these parents and their children?  Will we present a different view of disability to every member? Will we raise up a generation of doctors who battle for the unborn?  Will we trust God to supply every need?

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As frequently happens, God was getting me ready for Sunday’s sermon through an entirely unexpected avenue.

I was pointed to Cassie McLellend’s blog posting on Saturday evening and was gripped by several things she had to write, all of which are in quotes below:

It upsets me that doctors tell woman awful, terrifying things about their baby and then push them toward abortion.  We were told horrible things when we found out Caleb had SB, and we were “offered” termination at least 4 times.  I remember the doctor being shocked that we had no intention of aborting.

This is an example of the cultural weight against our children with disabilities.  Are parents really making an informed choice, or are their natural fears, limited information, and trust in experts guiding them?

I don’t mean any of this to be hurtful to someone who has had an abortion.  My heart breaks for the women who made that choice or felt like they had to make that choice.

What a reminder; this broke my heart for a different reason.  I spend a great deal of time and thought on arguments against abortion, especially addressing those in leadership who support this horrible practice: pastors, seminary and university professors, government leaders.  I have assumed people will understand I have a high level of care for the mothers involved.  But as I reviewed my own blog posts, I couldn’t see much evidence of that care.  This point that Cassie made, in particular, prepared me for Pastor John’s sermon; my heart was wide open when he came to his example of the university sophomore.

On another note, I have decided NOT to make this blog private.  At least not now.  I hate the thought that a parent expecting a child with SB might miss out on seeing this blog, seeing how wonderful Caleb is, because I decided to go private.  I wish I knew about blogs like mine when I was pregnant with Caleb.  It would have made a world of difference.

YES!  This young man stands as evidence of grace.  He has purpose and is already impacting people’s lives for the sake of the kingdom.  And from the comments to her post, Cassie has a broad audience and is helping guide people into different kinds of questions.  I’m grateful for this example.

And Greg Lucas has updated his blog as well.  I continue to learn new things every time he writes.  He reminds me that in the midst of extraordinary suffering, God demonstrates his power and mercy and grace.

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Please, not that color!

Years ago I followed an email list for parents of children with disabilities.  A member of that group started the Silver Ribbon Campaign in the late 1990s.  It included this tagline:

Consider this silver ribbon a special gift. Please wear it to promote the awareness and support of children with disabilities.

Yesterday, on the anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision by the U.S. Supreme Court, I found this on the site maintained by the Reproductive Coalition for Reproductive Choice website:

Join the Silver Ribbon Campaign – Wear A Silver Ribbon January 22-February 22 to Stand in Solidarity for Reproductive Rights and Justice.

In case you had any doubts, these ‘religious’ leaders support the practice of abortion.  And you know what that means for unborn children with disabilities.

It just made me want to cry.  Of all the colors the pro-abortion marketers had to choose, why that one?

I am tempted to a cynical thought that it was intentional, but I’m sure that isn’t the case.

The Silver Ribbon Campaign for children with disabilities never really took off here, but I would occasionally see a ribbon that looked silver or grey.  And that would make me smile.

Now, that symbol has been connected with the destruction of those same children.

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Today marks the anniversary of the Supreme Court decision on Roe v. Wade.

This is particularly important in the realm of disability.  Many people who are normally against abortion are acting against that conviction when the child still in the womb has a disability.  Since the 1990s, from 40% – 50% of American’s have claimed to be pro-life.  Yet abortion rates have approached or exceeded 90% for some disabling conditions, like Down syndrome.

That child is no less human.  But the cultural desire to control the future, claim sovereignty over the rights and dignity of small human beings, and to avoid all forms of suffering is strong.  Is it not amazing that Jesus, who actually does control the future and truly has sovereignty over all human beings, does not avoid suffering but actually chose to suffer?

I found these posts, all from or linked to The Gospel Coalition, to be informative and helpful on this subject of abortion, though not specifically on disability.  It is important for us to be ready, and to speak clearly, and to pray earnestly:

Clarity Not Gadgetry: Pro-Life Apologetics for the Next Generation by Scott Klusendorf

The Supreme Court, Roe v. Wade, and Abortion Law by Justin Taylor

Randy Alcorn to Pastors about Abortion linked by Justin Taylor

Abortion Is About God: Piper’s Passionate, Prophetic Pro-Life Preaching by Justin Taylor.  This last one is by far the longest to read, but it provides an in-depth look at Pastor John’s preaching on this subject.  My only regret is that Justin wrote this chapter for the book, For the Fame of God’s Name, before Pastor John gave his sermon last year, Born Blind for the Glory of God!

May 2011 be the beginning of the end of this abhorrent practice forever.

 

 

 

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One of the curiosities in life is that when people admit a weakness, we tend to trust them more.  That’s one of the reasons we’re pretty happy with Paul’s primary care physician; she will, at times, admit we need to make a course correction.  She doesn’t let her ego get in the way of evidence.

She admitted recently that one of her colleagues, “a very good doctor,” appeared to be stuck and seeing another specialist was reasonable.

That doesn’t mean the specialist takes it well.

One of our complaints has been that one of Paul’s specialists seems pretty passive, as though he’s given up trying to diagnose and treat Paul’s ‘spells.’  So we’re pursuing a new course.

Dianne called this specialist to let him know our new course of action, to which he replied, what can they do that he couldn’t?  That seemed like a silly question, since he hadn’t done anything for several weeks.  And, being pushed, he admitted he thought these spells were something that couldn’t be treated successfully.

That was news to us.  He had never even inferred that before.  But it also seemed like a good reason we should get another opinion, since this doctor had decided it couldn’t be treated.  He didn’t agree.

Then he pulled out his trump card: you do realize your son is severely disabled?

That was, we’re assuming, supposed to make these mysterious spells seem not so bad.

Dianne did two things over the next several days that were quite helpful.  First, she didn’t tell me all that he said immediately.  We’re 15 years into this, so statements like that from the doctor mostly make me tired and discouraged.  But there’s still a reservoir of pride and anger (righteous and not) that wants to have justice in this present age.  That could have gotten ugly since I have been known to write letters to people’s superiors, and I know what buttons to push.

The second thing Dianne did was not to engage him at all, but to reassert our new course of action and end the conversation.  That was the better course.

In reflecting on it, God brought these verses of Benediction to mind:

Now may the God of peace who brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great shepherd of the sheep, by the blood of the eternal covenant, equip you with everything good that you may do his will, working in us that which is pleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen. Hebrews 13:20-21

Our God is one of peace (I need to lay aside my anger and my pride), who brings people back from the dead (something a little more complicated than diagnosing a young man’s physical issues!) – and he equips us with ‘everything good’ to do his will.  Paul’s spells are no mystery to him, and even as we pursue Paul’s good, God will help us do what is most pleasing to him.

And here’s the anchor: through Jesus Christ!  What a promise!  Another reason to trust promises and not my perceptions.

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I’ll admit that as I watched this video for the first time I was concerned the entire emphasis was on programs and access and not on hearts.

But at the 6:50 point, Dagnachew Wakene talks about his disability and gives us a glimpse of his theology – and I liked what I heard.  I’m hoping to learn more about this man who doesn’t just acknowledge this is God’s way, but that it was God’s feast.

Anybody with more experience or insight into the organizations represented here, please let us know what you know!

Thank you to Scott Purser, a long-time friend, who has introduced me to Community Health Evangelism in Africa.

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The Rev. Dr. Kendyl Gibbons recently wrote in the Star Tribune about abortion:

About 15 to 20 percent of known pregnancies end in spontaneous abortion (before the 20th week of gestation) or miscarriages (after the 20th week). The failure of conception to result in a live birth is a common and natural event.

There’s no reason why human aspiration and necessity shouldn’t also be a factor in determining whether or not a particular pregnancy is brought to term by potential parents.

We don’t hesitate to intervene drastically in the normal biological process in the service of achieving or sustaining conception when a child is desired. It’s equally legitimate to intervene when a child is not intended.

I’m really not certain what Rev. Gibbons was trying to communicate through this example of spontaneous abortion and miscarriage.  It fails to add anything to the issue of abortion, which is about the purposeful, active destruction of unborn human beings by other human beings.

And equating miscarriage with abortion is just cruel.  We have experienced miscarriage – those little human beings were very much wanted.

In the end, Rev. Gibbons is simply offering the same, tired argument that comes up whenever we become untethered from standards given to us by the One who is eternally wise, knowledgeable and good.  “Human aspiration and necessity” is completely defined by those who are stronger than those who are weak, or in this case, entirely defenseless.  There is no assumed sacrifice for the sake of the weaker person; there is no dependency on God.  Only raw, violent, pride-filled, arrogant power dressed up in modern language.

On the contrary, God tells us that the weak are indispensable (1 Corinthians 12:22) and that fathers should show compassion to their children (Psalm 103:13).  Jesus, the Lord of the universe, told us that “I am among you as the one who serves (Luke 22:27b).”  This eternal standard considers the needs of the weak.

The Rev. Dr. Gibbons is a minister of the First Unitarian Society of Minneapolis, so I know she does not consider the Bible to have authority.  But I assume she uses the term ‘Reverend’ to demonstrate some religious authority to instruct or lead others.  If that is the case, she may want to consider the higher standard that is applied to those who teach:

Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. James 3:1

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The Gospel of Mark is a great book of the Bible (of course, they all are!).  And Max Mclean provides a wonderful, dramatic interpretation in this series that is available for viewing for free online.

Thank you to Justin Taylor who pointed to this on his blog on Thursday.

Here is a taste of that presentation from Mark 2, the healing of the paralytic:

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