I had to stop and reread this a couple of times. I’m not sure I can entirely wrap my mind around it!
The Father can’t think of anything better to give us than his Son. Suffering invites us to join his Son’s life, death, and resurrection. Once you see that, suffering is no longer strange. Peter writes, “Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share in Christ’s sufferings” (1 Peter 4:12-13).
Paul Miller, A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World, Kindle location 2968. It’s no longer free, but still a very good read.
The Works of God 
Stunning. I am just now reading Psalm 77. “In my day of trouble I seek the Lord…”. Great connection; thanks John!
“Suffering is no longer strange…as though something strange were happening to you” says Peter the apostle who was crucified upside down. Thank you for reading so much on our behalf and sharing these nuggets. They are precious!