Emily Colson, daughter of Chuck Colson and mother to Max, has added to the growing number of parents who are sharing their stories of raising a child with significant disabilities. She brings a welcome Christian orientation to her book.
Max lives with autism and Emily Colson does not hold back in her writing about it. We are introduced to the deep challenges his disabilities create in both their lives, the kind of challenges other parents will immediately recognize. Her writing is clean and clear and frequently beautiful.
There is a great deal that churches can learn from her story. Her friend, ‘Peppermint Patty,’ exemplifies some of the best of Christian community – immediately welcoming Emily and Max into her life, encouraging Emily to connect with other women for prayer and Bible study, and going with Emily to important meetings with doctors and other specialists. We have been blessed to have such people in our lives; her descriptions of various people frequently reminded me of people from Bethlehem.
Unfortunately, the video for this book, created by Zondervan, does not even begin to demonstrate the challenges associated with his disability and I believe does a disservice to the book.
And while there is much to commend, I find I can only cautiously recommend it:
- She frequently talks about the Bible, but infrequently actually quotes it. There were many natural opportunities to do so. Her story is certainly inspirational, but it is the Word that is both foundational and transformational.
- There were some head-scratching moments when I wasn’t sure what conclusion I was supposed to take away. For example, there’s a heartwarming story about a visit to a Catholic church, and the impact that Max had on several people during his visit. Though it is a delightful experience, there is no acknowledgment on the author’s part that Catholics and Evangelicals differ on some important aspects about God and his word. I don’t by any means suggest she isn’t serious about her faith; she most certainly is. But a non-Christian might conclude there really isn’t all that much difference between the two.
Finally, as a man, I wasn’t put off by how feminine this book is, but it did make me long for a more masculine voice on this subject.
Fortunately, that voice is coming very soon! Watch the blog for more details.
Focus on the Family interviewed Emily Colson and her dad, Chuck, last week in a two part series, about the book.
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John, do you have a book coming out soon?
Or does this new book that is about to come out have something to do with the “Wrestling With An Angel” post that went up and came back down a couple of days ago? Hmmmmm…..
Hmmmm, indeed! I neglected to set the time on that post. So, yes, you’ll see it again tomorrow!
John, on the list of my many things to do is sending you a copy of “Finding Glory in the Thorns” by Larry and Lisa Jamieson (yes, my husband and me). I hope you will read it, be blessed, and share the blessing. I think you will find it accomplishes many of the things your heart longs for…not the least of which are reflecting some male perspective on disability and chronic illness while putting utmost focus on Christ and scripture. Thank you for diligently making quality resources known to us who seek and love the King of Kings! [I’ll get your copy in the mail this week and thank you in advance for considering it.]
Lisa Jamieson
http://www.findingglory.com
http://www.walkrightin.org
info@walkrightin.org
Can someone please write some discussion questions for Book Clubs to discuss this book?
Linda, you may be interested in knowing that there are discussion questions available for a book on a similar theme — Finding Glory in the Thorns has a companion Group Discussion Guide. It’s available at http://www.walkrightin.org. As an author myself, I would also encourage you to write directly to both the author and publisher of Emily Colson’s book sharing your desire for discussion questions. That feedback from readers is REALLY valued!