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Krista Horning and her mother, Mary, will be on KTIS AM-900 this Friday, September 3 at noon (central), being interviewed on the Connecting Faith program hosted by Stephanie Kay.

Krista and Mary will be discussing Just the Way I Am: God’s Good Design in Disability.

Krista emailed, “Would you please pray for us that we would be filled with the Holy Spirit and speak the word of God with boldness?”

I would add, please pray that people’s hearts would be open to hearing their God-centered, Biblical word on disability.  May God be pleased to open many blinded eyes to the beauty and treasure of Jesus Christ through Krista’s and Mary’s testimony of God’s goodness and sovereignty over disability!

You can listen online here or by tuning into KTIS AM – 900 in the Twin Cities area or other stations on the Faith Radio network.

I will also post a link to the interview after it is completed.

Dr. Peter Singer, in his own words, on infanticide and parents deciding the fate of their already-born children with disabilities (unfortunately, the audio and video get out of synch):

We should not quickly dismiss this man or his adherents.  He is an intelligent, well-spoken person, highly regarded for his philosophical integrity and his passionate commitment to animals.  He holds an important chair at Princeton, is widely sought out as a speaker, and frequently writes for influential publications like The New Times.

And in this short clip he is laying out a way of thinking that is very dangerous, most directly to children with disabilities but also to their families.

Under the guise of parental rights (who could be against that?), he allows parents and doctors together to make the best decision they can for a child with disabilities and their families.  He even believes they should go out and consult with other families raising children with similar disabilities.  It all sounds very reasonable, even humane.

But he is articulating an important and potentially deadly switch in how to think about children.

He is suggesting that parents will need to justify the existence of their child with disabilities AFTER the child is born.

There is no inherent dignity or personhood granted to this helpless, living baby – only if the parents choose to grant it, and really, only as long as whoever is powerful allows the parents to grant it.

And for those parents who choose to let their child live?  Society no longer has a responsibility for one of its members; it is left entirely to the family.

Sentimental arguments about the benefits we experience as parents of children with significant disabilities will not carry this day.  Dr. Singer has introduced the idea that everything is simply in the world of options and choices, with the powerful left to make those choices freely unencumbered by larger ideas or ideals of responsibility to the weaker.  If you choose to keep your child because of some perceived gain in happiness or satisfaction, other parents can equally decide to kill that child for the same reasons.  Every choice has equal standing, rather than every little human member, who has no standing until it is granted by some other human being.

Society is already training us in what we should do with a pre-born child when a disability is discovered.  With abortion rates as high as they are for children with certain kinds of disabilities, we know this includes couples who would call themselves Christians.

Parents are already finding they must justify their decision to let their child live when abortion was still an option.  Dr. Singer’s thinking about who gets to make important decisions about other human beings is winning in our culture, even if his specific ideas about infanticide are still considered abhorrent today.

Yesterday I quoted from Psalm 127 in which the Psalmist speaks of children as a reward.  Psalm 139 points to God’s sovereign work in ‘knitting together’ these children in the womb.  God himself shows us how to think about the most vulnerable amongst us.

So let us engage the right arguments for those who would kill these precious ones.  Peter Singer’s appeal to prideful, arrogant indulgence of the powerful against the weak is the real battleground.  Only Jesus will ultimately win that war.  That applies to my own heart as well as all its manifestations in society.

Let us not win a battle against infanticide only to lose the war against our children’s inherent dignity granted by a sovereign, loving God.

Here in Minnesota school begins this week for some, next week for the rest.

Our children with disabilities will be confronted with new therapists, teachers, bus aides and schedules.  Those of us who are parents will be confronted with IEP meetings and requests for updates on how the summer went for our children and any new complications in their lives.

I’m grateful for this reminder from Psalm 127 about how God wants us to think about all of our children.  And how he wants us to think about him.

1 Unless the Lord builds the house,
those who build it labor in vain.
Unless the Lord watches over the city,
the watchman stays awake in vain.
2 It is in vain that you rise up early
and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil;
for he gives to his beloved sleep.

3 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,
the fruit of the womb a reward.
4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior
are the children of one’s youth.
5 Blessed is the man
who fills his quiver with them!
He shall not be put to shame
when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.

While I was away the team from Desiring God posted a short video of Pastor John talking about Just the Way I Am by Krista Horning.

I praise God for Pastor John’s persistent, consistent message about who God is!

This year’s Desiring God national conference includes many new features, including nearly 100,000 square feet of bookstore, exhibit, and seminar space that we didn’t have before.

It also means that registration opens for the conference much earlier than in years past.

So, please plan on coming early as a pair of authors will be signing their books at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, October 1:  Krista Horning and Randy Alcorn.

I’m excited this pairing is happening as they make so much sense together.  Just the Way I Am by Krista Horning is one of the clearest articulations of God’s sovereignty, goodness, mercy and kindness over disability that has ever been created.  And it is beautiful!

Randy Alcorn has been a champion for not-yet-born babies and the most vulnerable of God’s human creations.

I hope to see many of you there.

Earlier this year, Joni received an honorary Doctor of Laws degree from Biola University earlier this year and then gave their commencement address.

Another reason I am so excited about this year’s national conference is the opportunity to meet some long-distance friends who love God and live with disability.

Some of those friends represent Oregon-based The Elisha Foundation:

Our ultimate goal is to equip these special families for a more intimate faith in Christ, passionately lived out with love.

Justin Reimer, Executive Director, will be staffing a booth along with his son, Eli.  Matt Perman, who serves as a director at Desiring God, is a member of Justin’s board.

If you are attending the conference, I encourage you to seek them out!

God breaks bones?

I’m going to guess that this verse is familiar to you:

Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean; wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. Psalm 51:7

But the verse that immediately follows contains a surprising conclusion:

Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones that you have broken rejoice.  Psalm 51:8

Bones God has broken should rejoice?  How is that helpful?

From Matthew Henry’s commentary:

Note, (1.) The pain of a heart truly broken for sin may well be compared to that of a broken bone; and it is the same Spirit who as a Spirit of bondage smites and wounds and as a Spirit of adoption heals and binds up.

(2.) The comfort and joy that arise from a sealed pardon to a penitent sinner are as refreshing as perfect ease from the most exquisite pain.

(3.) It is God’s work, not only to speak this joy and gladness, but to make us hear it and take the comfort of it.

Jesus himself said it was better for us to disable ourselves than have our sin send us to hell.  Anything that exposes the horror of sin and reveals the beauty and sufficiency of Jesus Christ, even God himself breaking bones, is an undeserved grace.

We had a wonderful time enjoying God’s creation, though one member wasn’t with us.

Paul took ill again while with his grandmother, so we cut our time away a little short.  We were with a new medical specialist on Monday who is just as flummoxed as we are about what is causing Paul’s spells.  More doctoring is coming.

As wearying as even thinking about a new round of tests and more new doctors is, our vacation provided some important reminders of God’s continuing kindness to our family:

  • Paul has an aunt who lives near grandma, and this particular aunt is a very highly trained and experienced medical specialist herself.  She made sure he was never in any immediate danger.
  • Not one child complained about leaving early.  They wanted to be with their brother.
  • The various reservations were easily canceled without penalty.
  • Paul’s regular pediatrician and her staff immediately got the appointment for Monday with a new specialist.
  • We found Paul in very good spirits.  He didn’t want to leave the farm and he continues to ask for grandma today.  What a comfort to have him bond so closely with such a good woman who loves him dearly!

I try not to take any of the above for granted; yet I am certainly prone to grumbling as plans needed to be changed.

Habakkuk provides good instruction to help me fight self-pity and self-righteousness:

17 Though the fig tree should not blossom,
nor fruit be on the vines,
the produce of the olive fail
and the fields yield no food,
the flock be cut off from the fold
and there be no herd in the stalls,
18 yet I will rejoice in the Lord;
I will take joy in the God of my salvation.

Habakkuk 3:17-18

This was first posted last September 8, 2009. Soon all our children will be off to school again.  And so yet another season trusting that God will help us and protect our boy begins.

For all of us with school-aged children, the day after Labor Day is when it all begins again.  An army of people, all listed on my son’s IEP with their official titles and the number of minutes each week he will work with them, will attempt to help him develop skills as much as he is able.

But his favorite part of the day is the enormous bus that will pull up directly in front of the house to transport him to his school, and then back again.  He loves the bus.  So it’s pretty easy to get him going in the morning – a reminder that the bus is coming is usually enough to have him pop up from his bed.

He’s been getting on that bus since he was three years old.  And every year I worry about the bus driver and the bus aides.  I won’t let him on the bus with a sole adult, even with credentials and a clean track record – my son is just too vulnerable.

So, every year I am confronted with my responsibilities to him as his dad, and the command to not be anxious:

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:4-7

I must do both: carry out my fatherly responsibilities of protection; and not be anxious about anything. This is not a balancing act.

So, in a couple of hours, I’ll put him back on that bus.  And pray like crazy.