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October is officially National Disability Employment Awareness Month.  President Obama included in his official declaration:

Individuals with disabilities are a vital and dynamic part of our Nation, and their contributions have impacted countless lives.  People with disabilities bring immeasurable value to our workplaces, and we will continue to address the challenges to employment that must be overcome.  This month, let us rededicate ourselves to fostering equal access and fair opportunity in our labor force, and to capitalizing on the talent, skills, and rich diversity of all our workers.

I agree whole-heartedly.

But I would also suggest the President, in wanting to make a generous statement about people with disabilities, did not use the word ‘immeasurable’ accurately. The Federal government measures value all the time: gross national product, employment levels, investment in capital and personnel.  We watch these measurements with great interest.

By contrast, God, who creates out of nothing, knits together little human beings for his glory who will have an eternal existence.  Eternity would seem to be more appropriately connected to ‘immeasurable value’ than productivity in any workplace.

In fact, it is that connection to productivity in the workplace that leaves me unsettled.  I know quite a few children who will never be ‘productive’ in terms of their ability to produce an economic benefit to society.  This lack of future benefit combined with alleged certainty about the ‘quality of life’ a child will experience results in some horrendous things – like abortion rates of more than 90% for some disabling conditions.

How can we even begin to make statements about ‘immeasurable value’ in one area of life when these future workers aren’t allowed to be born?

Yes, I’d feel much better about this declaration if the President took a stand on pre-born babies with disabilities having intrinsic value and inherent, God-given dignity.

Please, Mr. President, do more than make declarations about employment for people with disabilities.  Do more than talk about abortion being ‘safe, legal and rare‘ in this country.  Please, tell people to let the children live.

Fanny Crosby, who became blind at the age of 6 weeks due to medical malpractice, is famously known for the more than 8,000 hymns she wrote during her lifetime, including Blessed Assurance, Rescue the Perishing, Pass Me Not O Gentle Savior, and Saved by Grace.

Her faith in a good and sovereign God is well documented, even over a doctor who caused her blindness:

But I have not, for a moment, in more than eighty-five years, felt a spark of resentment against him; for I have always believed that the good Lord, in His infinite mercy, by this means consecrated me to the work that I am still permitted to do. When I remember how I have been blessed, how can I repine?

She and her husband had one child, Francis, who died as a baby.  One biographer said the death of that child was the inspiration for the hymn, Safe in the Arms of Jesus.  Another documents a different reason.  Regardless, it is a beautiful testimony that Jesus is trustworthy in the midst of great suffering.  I hear echoes of Paul’s ‘light momentary affliction‘ in Fanny Crosby’s ‘only a few more trials, only a few more tears!’

  1. Safe in the arms of Jesus,
    Safe on His gentle breast;
    There by His love o’ershaded,
    Sweetly my soul shall rest.
    Hark! ’tis the voice of angels
    Borne in a song to me,
    Over the fields of glory,
    Over the jasper sea. 

    • Refrain:
      Safe in the arms of Jesus,
      Safe on His gentle breast;
      There by His love o’ershaded,
      Sweetly my soul shall rest.
  2. Safe in the arms of Jesus,
    Safe from corroding care,
    Safe from the world’s temptations;
    Sin cannot harm me there.
    Free from the blight of sorrow,
    Free from my doubts and fears;
    Only a few more trials,
    Only a few more tears!
  3. Jesus, my heart’s dear Refuge,
    Jesus has died for me;
    Firm on the Rock of Ages
    Ever my trust shall be.
    Here let me wait with patience,
    Wait till the night is o’er;
    Wait till I see the morning
    Break on the golden shore.

I have a hard time NOT looking at the books people keep around their homes.

While visiting my mother-in-law I picked up a little pamphlet she had saved from her uncle’s home after he died some years ago.  Titled, Twenty Choice Messages by J.D. Carlson, it was compiled by friends of his who dedicated it “to those who have received rich blessing and spiritual benefit through 48 ½ years of his loyal labors for the Lord as pastor, evangelist, radio minister, and author of many hymns and sermons.”

48 ½ years!  That got my attention.

In one little essay entitled “Is Anything Too Hard for God?” Pastor Carlson unpacks Genesis 18:14.  I’ve included just the headings of his sections here:

  1. First of all there is no promise too hard (for God) to fulfill.
  2. There is no prayer too hard for Him to answer.
  3. There is no problem too hard for God to solve.
  4. Then, no person is too hard a case for God to save and bring to himself.
  5. There is no church too hard for God to revive.

That last one hit me squarely between the eyes. I’ve been guilty of thinking certain churches and denominations are just too far gone.  God is not constrained, ever!  And might he be pleased to use his chosen ones with disabilities to call them back?

I had never heard of J.D. Carlson, which is a reminder that someday few will remember those who labor for us today – like Piper, Keller, Carson.

But, Lord willing, their books will remain, and God-honoring books – or even little essays – can encourage hearts decades later. And I’m grateful God preserved that little collection of messages for me to find in October 2010.

Too frequently I say words in haste.  But there was a season when I said terrible, heretical, damnable words about God and his word, and I was quite certain I meant every one of them.  Fortunately, I was surrounded by people who understood the difference between words with roots on my heart, and words spoken in the haze of bitterness, uncertainty and suffering.

In this article written two years before that season of my life, Pastor John helps us see the difference between words that deserve reproving and words ‘spoken on the wind.’

Job 6:26

Do you think that you can reprove words, when the speech of a despairing man is wind?

In grief and pain and despair people often say things they otherwise would not say. They paint reality with darker strokes than they will paint it tomorrow when the sun comes up. They sing in minor keys and talk as though that is the only music. They see clouds only and speak as if there were no sky.

They say, “Where is God?” Or: “There is no use to go on.” Or: “Nothing makes any sense.” Or: There’s no hope for me.” Or: “If God were good this couldn’t have happened.”

What shall we do with these words?

Job says that we do not need to reprove them. These words are wind, or literally “for the wind.” They will be quickly blown away. There will come a turn in circumstances and the despairing person will waken from the dark night and regret hasty words.

Therefore, the point is, let us not spend our time and energy reproving such words. They will be blown away of themselves on the wind. One need not clip the leaves in autumn. It is a wasted effort. They will soon blow off of themselves.

O how quickly we are given to defending God, or sometimes the truth, from words that are only for the wind. If we had discernment we could tell the difference between the words with roots and the words blowing in the wind.

There are words with roots in deep error and deep evil. But not all grey words get their color from a black heart. Some are colored mainly by the pain, the despair. What you hear is not the deepest thing within. There is something real within where they come from. But it is temporary—like a passing infection—real, painful, but not the true person.

Let us learn to discern whether the words spoken against us or against God or against the truth are merely for the wind—spoken not from the soul, but from the sore. If they are for the wind, let us wait in silence and not reprove. Restoring the soul not reproving the sore is the aim of our love.

Learning to listen to the soul,

Pastor John

John Piper, “When Words Are Wind,” November 10, 1993 Taste and See Article

Earlier this week I mentioned how encouraged I was that Pastor Kenny took advantage of a natural opportunity during the child dedication to talk about the gift that all children, including those with disabilities, are to the church.

Pastor John does the same thing.  And he also intentionally works in references to disability and the glory and sovereignty of God.  Both are helpful to those of us experiencing it and to those who live with us in the body of Christ!

But there are other moments when questions arise like, How could God do this? or How could this possibly work together for my good? and a bunch of other how and why questions. And frankly, I think if we don’t give answers to those questions for people, they will stuff those questions. And in the end there will be a kind of internal atheism that will start to grow like a canker and they won’t even know what is happening until it comes out in all kinds of weird theology or rejection of Christ entirely.

In other words, the big picture of God has an essential role in the healing of our wounds.

For example, we’ve got folks in our church who have disabled kids: blind kids, kids who will never have a mind beyond that of a six-month-old, kids who don’t have the full use of their arms and legs, kids with Down syndrome. They’re all over the map. And what I’m finding as I try to pastor these folks is that they definitely need people to come alongside them, stand by them, help them, serve them, love them, understand them, get inside their skin. But oh, they need more. And they would tell you this.

If they were sitting where I’m sitting, they would say, “This theology that God is sovereign and great and wise and makes no mistakes is huge. It is huge in the self-understanding of the disabled child, and it is huge in the hope of the parents that they can endure a lifetime of providing support.”

The way it affects the children is that it teaches them “God created me, and I’m not a throw-away. God loves me like this, he made me like this, and I have a purpose like this. I will find it and I will bless.” That’s the way Joni Eareckson Tada thinks, and that’s the way Krista in our church thinks. “I’m not a mistake! He didn’t drop the ball when I was born! I have a meaning! I’ll be whole some day in the full sense that you regard wholeness, and in the meantime my brokenness is part of my meaning. And I’ll find it, and I’ll live it for God’s sake.”

And for the parents, who for years and years have their whole lives turned upside-down with a baby born that they never expected, everything changes. Where are they getting strength for that? Where are they getting confidence that this can be worked for their good day after day and year after year? No way will it work to say, “God had nothing to do with this. God is wringing his hands. God doesn’t produce any of this.” That is not comforting. It absolutely is not comforting.

And so, how does this God, majestic and grand and glorious, heal a bruised heart? Part of his grandness and part of his majesty is that he is both strong and tender. He is both affectionate and massively powerful. And both sides are essential to his glory. Both are essential to his grandeur. And if we don’t build both into the lives of our people, we will set them up for a terrible fall. (Emphases in bold are mine)

From How does talk about the grandeur and glory of God heal a bruised heart? by Pastor John Piper, December 5, 2008.

I was emailing a dear friend and offered him a copy of Greg Lucas’ book, Wrestling with an Angel, if he hadn’t seen it yet.  Here was his reply:

Also, I would gladly receive the grace of a Greg Lucas book.  I am not sure that (my wife) will part with her copy.  🙂

Actually, her copy is too pen-marked and tear-stained to share with me anyhow……

As Christmas approaches, both Just the Way I Am and Wrestling with an Angel can be bought in bulk for significant discounts.  We’re always finding somebody who hasn’t seen one or both of these books yet!  And most people, especially those in our situations, seem genuinely touched when receiving these books!

Through a planned death!

So Christ was and is equal with God. He is God. He became also a human being. He obediently suffered and died. Obediently. That means God the Father told him to do it. That means it was a planned death. And the point of the plan was that the Christ be a substitute for the damnation of all human sinners who would trust in Jesus. As it says in Galatians 3:13, “Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us.” He bore our damnation as a substitute. This was God’s loving plan for the salvation of sinners like us who deserve hell. That’s why it says in verse 8, “He was obedient to the point of death.” He wasn’t just dying. He was obeying. God had a plan. God gave a command. The Son was fulfilling it, willingly, obediently. The plan was, “Be a substitute for the damnation of all who will believe in you. Bear for them my holy and just curse, and I will make them my children—fellow heirs with you of everything I own.”

And then in verse 9, you see the greatest “therefore” in the Bible. “Therefore, God has highly exalted him.” In other words, because of his obedient and successful life and death, God raised him from the dead and gave him great glory as the Lord of the universe. That is the stupendous assumption behind Philippians 3:20-21.

So now let’s go there again. “Our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, (and now we know how he got to heaven: he was raised from the dead) who will transform our lowly body to be like his glorious body (and now we know how he has a body in heaven: he was raised bodily from the dead), by the power that enables him even to subject all things to himself.”  John Piper, sermon on March 27, 2005, “All Things Subject to the Risen Christ.” (all emphases in bold are mine)

 

Krista Horning, on behalf of the Horning family, wrote me earlier this week with a strong recommendation for Joni Eareckson Tada’s newest book, A Place of Healing. She included this long quotation from the book:

Sometimes when the day (or night!) seems long, and life in the wheelchair seems like a heavy weight to bear, I remind myself that my Lord Jesus Himself was handicapped.

Does that concept startle you just a little?

You know me:  I’m always looking to see what God’s Word has to say about physical limitations.  And when you study the life of Jesus, you have to stop and consider that although our Savior did not have a physical disability per se, He did handicap Himself when He came to earth.

Boy, did He ever.

How can I say that for sure?  Well, the dictionary defines “handicap” as any difficulty that is imposed on a superior person so as to hamper or disadvantage him, making that person more equal with others.

Certainly, if we use that definition, then Jesus was handicapped.

Think of it!

On one hand, the fullness of God dwelt in Christ, yet on the other hand He “made Himself nothing”.  He emptied Himself, taking the very nature of a servant.  Talk about handicaps!  Can you imagine a greater one?  To be God on one hand, and yet to make Himself nothing!  That is one severe limitation which, you would think, would have hampered our Lord or put Him at a disadvantage.

Jesus, the Master Architect of the entire universe, designed suns and stars, galaxies and planets.  When he handicapped Himself, He made Himself a carpenter on earth, limiting Himself to designing common wooden chairs, stools, tables, and yokes for necks of oxen.

Jesus was also the one who spoke the Word, creating everything around us.  But this same Jesus who spoke time and space into being handicapped Himself on earth, choosing instead to speak to prostitutes, lepers, and sinners.

Jesus, the one who since Satan’s fall had despised pain and suffering as one of the awful results of man’s sin, handicapped Himself on earth when His back ached and His muscles cramped and when He sweat real sweat and cried real tears and bled real blood.

When I think of all this, it strikes me that these limitations didn’t just “happen” to Jesus in the same way that circumstances “happen”  to you and me.  The amazing thing is that Christ chose to be handicapped.  I can’t think of too many people who would chose to be disabled.  Believe me, I know I wouldn’t!  There is nothing easy, nothing fun, nothing casual about living with a disability.  From the very get-go, it’s hard.

But Jesus chose to handicap Himself so that you and I might share eternity with Him in bodies that will never stoop, limp, falter, or fail.  Jesus chose to experience pain and suffering beyond our imagination in order that you and I would one day walk the streets of Heaven whole, happy, and pain free.  Jesus chose to die-though that was a daunting task in itself.  As C.S. Lewis wrote, Jesus “was so full of life that when he wished to die He had to ‘borrow death from others.’”

But borrow it He did, taking it unto Himself, yielding up His life, so that you and I might pass through death’s shadow and live forever.  Yes, while I’m alive here on earth, I am called to endure a handicap.  But how could I be other than grateful and content?  I’m in the best company of all.

Joni Eareckson Tada, A Place of Healing, 204-205.

I wrote to the Hornings and asked why this quote was so special to them.  Bob replied on behalf of the family:

The thing that was striking in these paragraphs was one of those little additions to our way of thinking that made a world of difference.

We’ve always known that Jesus had to give up much.  He had to empty himself to come here to live and die.  It’s one of those things that we “know,” but perhaps it’s so incomprehensible that we just gloss over it or take it for granted, even if that is unintentional.  We don’t know it as well as we think we do.

But when Joni says that Jesus emptying of himself was like becoming disabled, it made us sit up and take notice.  That’s something we can relate to.  We know the difficulty.  We know all the things we’ve had to give up or let go of.  We know the rejection and loneliness.  So now we can grasp just a tiny bit of what Jesus went through.  And it is just a tiny bit because we know his was an infinitely greater loss than anything we ever experienced.

And the good news is that he did it so that he could solve a problem for us (our sin) that we had absolutely no ability to solve on our own.  Despite his “disability” he was still far beyond anything we could imagine.  And he still is.  What a great God!

Amen, Bob!

Thank you, Horning family, for this book recommendation (which is in my stack) and for helping me see the greatness of Jesus in a fresh way.  Yes, what a great God!

Pastor Kenny Stokes has been serving as pastor for preaching during Pastor John’s leave.  I appreciate what God has done through Pastor Kenny during these months.

On Saturday, he did two very important things for those of us living with disability in our families:

1.  As he welcomed the parents and children being dedicated* to the front of the church, he directly stated that children, ALL children, are gifts, and then he specifically named several different kinds of disabilities.

2. One young couple was dedicating their second child.  As Pastor Kenny approached them he reminded the congregation, with great emotion, that their oldest child had died this past year.

Small reminders like this are cumulative.  People were reminded that we don’t hide suffering and loss at Bethlehem. Over time, the idea of all children being gifts, including the ones with disabilities and the ones who die so young, is part of the air we breathe in that church.  I was deeply moved and very grateful.

I greatly appreciated how naturally Pastor Kenny approached both of these issues.  On the one hand, disability is a ‘big deal’ and deserves specific and special attention.  On the other hand, disability surrounds us, and it is very helpful that he took advantage of these natural opportunities to state truth about all children being gifts and to remind us that families bear extraordinary burdens.

Thank you, Pastor Kenny, for helping people see a little glimpse of both disability and suffering this past Saturday.  Thank you for pointing us to God in all things.

*You can click here if you would like more information on what it means to have a child dedicated at Bethlehem.

Yes, he does!  But he cares 10 million times more about your soul!

A helpful reminder from Pastor John: