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No, the 2010 Desiring God Conference for Pastors is not specifically on disability or starting a disability ministry.  It is actually entitled, The Pastor, the People, and the Pursuit of Joy: The Apostolic Aim of Pastoral Ministry.  But the implications of pastors being workers for their peoples’ joy are huge on this issue of disability, suffering, and the church. 

And Sam Storms is worth the price of admission by himself (by the way, admission is cheaper if you register by Dec. 31 or if you bring five or more people with you).

So, encourage your pastor(s) to attend.

Thank you to pastor, author and blogger Kevin DeYoung for pointing to this amazing presentation on the human cell.

For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.
My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.

Psalm 139:13-16

Dr.Linda Treloar, writer of the the article, Disability, spiritual  beliefs and the church: the experiences of adults with disabilities and family members, presents a refreshingly positive view of Christian belief with some findings that pastors should find helpful.  Unfortunately the article is owned by a journal that only provides libraries and subscribers access, so I cannot link to it here.

She makes great attempts to be fair in her descriptions.  For example, here is how she describes Evangelical Christians:

Evangelical Christians recognize the Bible as the inerrant, inspired word of God in its original writings. Biblical scriptures, the active living word of God, provide direction for living (see National Association of Evangelicals 2002, Scottsdale Bible Church 2002).

No political references and no pejorative language.  The entire article is written the same way, through the description of the study itself to the recruiting process through the findings.  I do not believe that Dr. Treloar has any particular connection with or affection for Christian beliefs, but she is certainly sympathetic to her study participants.  Frequently she lets them tell their own stories:

One person said to me, ‘Don’t you hate God if He would do this to you?  That He chose you to have a child with a disability?’ Very strong words. Why, who am I? I don’t have a right to say to God, ‘Who are you to do that to me?’ I’m His child, so is Michelle. He’s doing what He sees best for us, even though we don’t necessarily see the big picture. Most of us have a limited perspective of who we are in relation to God, even people that go to church regularly.

Dr. Treloar appears to be most interested in what actually helped people put their experience of disability into perspective, so there is very little interpretting of whether the study participants are ‘right’ in their beliefs or not.  I believe that to be a weakness of the study, but it also allows her to go where the study participants take her rather than to pre-determined conclusions.

And she presents some very helpful advice for churches:

Several religious factors positively influenced the participants’ responses to challenges associated with disability. God was at the centre of the participants’ ultimate concerns. They used the Bible and their faith to provide meaning for their lives (emphasis mine). They experienced decreased spiritual distress for disability when their life circumstances were congruent with their spiritual beliefs. While high religious support by the church promoted positive adaptation to disability, it was not as important as the participants’ personal relationship with Jesus Christ (emphasis mine).

In other words, encourage the study of the Bible and a right understanding of Jesus Christ!  And a common outcome of such an understanding?

What the participants’ believed influenced their response to life. The participants chose to live with joy and thankfulness despite stresses associated with disability. This reflected their belief in God’s greater purpose and plan for their lives.

The study participants also made recommendations:

The participants emphasized the need for increased assistance by the church in establishing theological meaning for disability (emphasis mine). Lack of a biblical foundation for achieving meaning in disability promoted spiritual distress and movement away from God and the church for a few participants.

There are weaknesses to this study:

  1. It focused on Evangelical Christians, who would more naturally be oriented toward trusting in and granting authority to the Bible.  People who do not share these beliefs can easily dismiss the study conclusions as irrelevant to their experiences.
  2. The study was very small – less than 30 participants.
  3. Christianity is still presented as a means of coping, providing understanding and/or meaning for disability.  While sympathetic to the positive benefits for believing in Jesus Christ, there is no case made for him being the central authority in all the universe as he is described in the Bible: All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made (John 1:3).

And maybe I give this study too much credit because it reflects my own experience.  As I have written before, God-centered people were very helpful in pointing me to Jesus, but it was God’s word that has proven decisive over and over again, exactly where she is pointing.

But I find it very encouraging that a secular, peer-reviewed journal would seriously consider the positive benefits of Christian belief.  And the findings did not end on a note of developing new programs or counseling methods, but on providing a right theological framework.

And that is something everyone, disabled or non-disabled, should be pursuing in the church.

I found an article in the Journal of Advanced Nursing, Disability, spiritual beliefs and the church: the experiences of adults with disabilities and family members (December 2002, Vol. 40 Issue 5, pp. 594-603) which sounds promising:

Findings. Trial or difficulty contributed to spiritual challenge, the breaking of self, reliance on God, and strengthened faith in God. The participants chose to live with thankfulness and joy despite difficulties common to experience with disability. The participants’ spiritual beliefs stabilized their lives, providing meaning for the experience of disability, assistance with coping and other benefits. The participants’ recommendations include increased assistance by the church in promoting theological understanding of disability, and religious support using a continuing model of caring.

Recommendations include promoting theological understanding of disability?  From the Journal of Advanced Nursing?  I’ll definitely read this one and report back.

I have no doubt that the motives were good, even pure, when this exercise was developed to help people learn about disabilities:

Help the children of the parish experience what it is like to have a disability. Blindfold some of them. Have wheelchairs, cane, walkers, and braces available for others to use. Place cotton in the ears of a third group, and tell others that they cannot talk and so must find other ways to communicate. Make sure that the space used for this exercise is safe for everyone. Leave time to listen to what the children learned and how they felt as people with disabilities.

I’ve run across this exercise a number of times with schools, so I’m not making fun of the Episcopal Church, where I found it listed as part of their 10 Ways to Build a Disability Ministry.

But it isn’t a very good idea. Continue Reading »

This is one of my favorite pictures with my two non-disabled boys, taken at Joni Camp near Detroit Lakes, MN in 2008.

They LOVED playing on the extra wheelchairs that were brought to camp.  They were completely unafraid to try them out, attempted wheelchair basketball and baseball, and appreciated the skill some of the campers had in using the chairs.

And I thought it was good for them (and for me) to understand how valuable the chairs are for those who need them.  

Why do I bring that up now, as the snow flies in Minnesota?

I was reading a religious denomination’s suggestions for starting a disability ministry, and it included introducing people to wheelchairs – exactly what happened above at Joni Camp for me and my boys.

Yet their suggestions struck me as more likely to cause harm than good.  Tomorrow I’ll share their specific suggestion, and why I thought it worked at Joni Camp but is generally really bad advice.

Do you have a story about how you learned about disability or adaptations in ways that were helpful and positive?

I missed this article, “The Abortion Distortion – Just How Pro-choice is America, Really?,” in the New York Magazine, but fortunately Al Mohler didn’t.  He wrote this commentary, An Amazing Article on Abortion in New York Magazine, in response.

Both articles are worth reading. That is no endorsement of the views of the New York Magazine article, but I did learn some things from it.

But please also consider this.  Dr. Mohler rightly points out that technology like ultrasounds has saved babies who otherwise might have been aborted.  Both articles point out that such technologies have turned the argument decidedly in favor of the pro-life movement.  We can see, clearly see, human life is developing in the womb.  That creates a real problem for abortion supporters.

Except, that is, when the baby has a disability.  Then the technologies seem to make the case for abortion.  How else are we to understand abortion rates of 60% to 90% for certain disabilities?

The technologies are not at fault.  We are not as pro-life as we think.

Most of you have heard that Matt Chandler of the Village Church had a seizure last week which prompted surgery to remove a tumor last Friday.  Results are still pending as I write this.

He taped this video a few days before surgery, but after his seizure.

At times I’m hard on men because, well, they don’t behave like men as God intended.

Matt Chandler, however, is a man, and one who loves God and all God’s promises.  Please watch this man trust his Lord in the midst of great uncertainty.

In 1964 a woman contracted rubella while pregnant.  Her child was born with significant disabilities.  The parents of that child sued the doctor, alleging both ‘wrongful birth’ and ‘wrongful life’ based on what they alleged was the doctor’s negligence.  In other words, if they had known more, they would have aborted their child and now the doctor needed to pay.

The court rejected the parents’ arguments and concluded:

A court cannot say what defects should prevent an embryo from being allowed life such that denial of the opportunity to terminate the existence of a defective child in embryo can support a cause for action. . . A child need not be perfect to have a worthwhile life. . . . The sanctity of a single human life is the decisive factor in this suit in tort.  Eugenic considerations are not controlling. We are not talking here about the breeding of prize cattle (emphasis mine). . . We firmly believe the right of the child to live is greater than and precludes their right not to endure emotional and financial distress. 

Indeed.

Known as Gleitman v. Cosgrove, it continues to be an influential part of the law, but unfortunately not a decisive part.  Click here for a good description of ‘wrongful birth’ and ‘wrongful life’ court actions, from the Harvard Civil Rights – Civil Liberties Law Review.