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I like to live with the thought that my grandparent’s generation was better than mine – more noble, less sinful than this present age.  I think there is evidence that was the case.

But there is also evidence that they shared some of this culture’s evil intentions toward those with disabilities, like this finding from a study done in the 1930’s:

A majority (54%) also favored the most radical eugenic measures, government supervision of “mercy deaths” for “hopeless invalids.”  Public Opinion Quarterly, vol 2., July 1938, pp. 390-91 as quoted in Three Generations, No Imbeciles by Paul Lombardo, p. 221.

We must stand for those the culture would destroy today, and teach our children to do so after we are gone.  Not in their own strength, but in the knowledge of and hope in who God is:

He established a testimony in Jacob
and appointed a law in Israel,
which he commanded our fathers
to teach to their children,
that the next generation might know them,
the children yet unborn,
and arise and tell them to their children,
so that they should set their hope in God
and not forget the works of God,
but keep his commandments;
and that they should not be like their fathers,
a stubborn and rebellious generation,
a generation whose heart was not steadfast,
whose spirit was not faithful to God.

Psalm 78:5-8

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In the pile of papers I referenced yesterday were some old test scores.  Since Paul attends public schools, they assess his educational progress as mandated by various federal and state bodies.

The things they want to measure, he can’t do.  His scores on reading, reading comprehension, math, math concepts and the like were as low as you can score and still be breathing.

The things they can’t measure – like his inherent, God-created dignity as a human being – he excels at.

I used to cry when those came in the mail every year.  They still make me sad, not because of how severely disabled they ‘objectively’ show him to be, but because this is the cultural measure of his worth.

And therein lies a danger to children with disabilities not yet born.  These are the objective measures of ‘reality’ that doctors and social workers and university professors understand – and which are communicated to parents who live in and breathe the air of this culture.  The decision to do away with such seemingly worthless human beings then appears to be obvious.

No, let us talk about what is truly real.  God creates some to live with disabilities (Exodus 4:11), he knows all their days (Psalm 139:13-16), he will supply every need (Philippians 4:19), and he knows the end from the beginning (Revelation 21:5-7).

It is entirely speculation on my part, but I believe that my Paul will someday hear these words from Jesus himself:

Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.

And for another look at what’s going on inside the womb, the folks at Abort73.com have released another video – The Case Against Abortion: Prenatal Development.

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This morning (Saturday), I have been given the pleasure of introducing Pastor David Michael to the 900 or so attendees of the Children Desiring God Conference.  I am so grateful to God for this man; it has been a pleasure to even think about doing so!

David has been a champion at Bethlehem for the children who are different because of disability.  So has his wife, Sally, who co-labors with him in the Family Discipleship Department and as the creator of curriculum for Children Desiring God.

I would strongly encourage you to read the following two attachments, in response to questions Krista Horning had as a young girl back in 1999.  You now know Krista as the author of Just the Way I Am: God’s Good Design in Disability.  But then, she was a girl with hard questions.  And God provided through David and Sally Michael:

Letter from David Michael

Notes from Sally Michael

Thank you, Lord, for people who know you will help them to love us to the very end!  Thank you for David and Sally Michael!

Letters used with permission of the Horning family.

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Disability causes many to question the goodness of God. I know I once did.

But there is also a way to think of disability in terms of how it protects us from passively accepting everything the culture wants us to believe – like ‘good people’ (which we are told we are even in light of all the evidence to the contrary) only deserve ‘good’ things in our lives.

We know that life includes hard things – we simply can’t avoid it if disability has entered our family.  So we read the Scriptures with that in mind, and understand the sovereignty of God as being over all things, including hard things.

Of course, not everyone has that advantage like we have.  And when I see pastors warning their people to fight against being sucked into unbiblical ways to view the world, I realize how much grace God has given to me through my son’s disabilities and my wife’s cancer.

For example, D.A. Carson, in How Long, Oh Lord, warns against Christians assuming ‘we ought to be immune from such evil and suffering.’  And he also offers a good solution!

We remember the wonderful triumphs of Joseph, Gideon, and David; we meditate continuously on the miraculous healing of the man born blind, or on the resurrection of Lazarus. We are less inclined to think through the sufferings of Jeremiah, the constant ailments of Timothy, the illness of Trophimus, or the thorn in Paul’s flesh. A righteous man like Naboth perishes under trumped up charges (1 Kings 21). The “good guys” do not always win. .  . we may be infected by a pious version of the raw triumphalism that prevails in much of the surrounding culture because we have not taken care to follow the balance of Scripture.  Carson, p. 25.

Yes, the whole Bible is good for us to know!  It protects us from thinking, and behaving, in ways that are not God-honoring or helpful to other people!

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness (2 Timothy 3:16).

I learned that lesson because God brought disability and disease into my home.

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One of the arguments raised in support of abortion is that we can prevent the suffering that comes with disability.  In essence, it is better to destroy a child with disabilities than to let him live a life that may include suffering, for himself and for his family.

There are too many people who believe that lie.

Pastor John goes right at that question in Brothers, We Are Not Professionals (emphasis in bold is mine):

5.  By judging difficult and even tragic human life as a worse evil than taking life, abortionists contradict the wide-spread Biblical teaching that God loves to show His gracious power through suffering and not just by helping people avoid suffering.

This does not mean we should seek suffering for ourselves or for others. But it does mean that suffering is generally portrayed in the Bible as the necessary and God-ordained, though not God-pleasing plight of this fallen world (Rom. 8:20-25; Ezek. 18:32). It is seen as the necessary portion of all who would enter the kingdom (Acts 14:22; 1 Thess. 3:3-4) and live lives of godliness (2 Tim. 3:12). This suffering is never viewed merely as a tragedy.  It is also viewed as a means of growing deep with God and becoming strong in this life (Rom. 5:3-5; James 1:3-4; Heb. 12:3-11; 2 Cor. 1:9; 4:7-12; 12:7-10) and becoming something glorious in the life to come (2 Cor. 4:17; Rom. 8:18).

When abortionists argue that taking life is less evil than the difficulties that will accompany life, they are making themselves wiser than God who teaches us that His grace is capable of stupendous feats of love through the suffering of those who live.

John Piper, Brothers, We Are Not Professionals, p. 223.

Personal note: until Think: The Life of the Mind and the Love of God came out, Brothers, We Are Not Professionals was my favorite Piper book.

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Do you have a broken spirit?

Do certain words ever leap off a page at you?

My reading through the Bible yesterday had me in Exodus 6.  God has heard the prayers of the people of Israel and seen their oppression.  Moses has spoken to Pharaoh, and his response is to make it significantly worse for the people of Israel.  Even Moses accuses God: “you have not delivered your people at all (Exodus 5:23).”  God responds, “Now you shall see what I will do to Pharaoh (Exodus 6:1).”

And the people can’t hear it: Moses spoke thus to the people of Israel, but they did not listen to Moses, because of their broken spirit and harsh slavery (Exodus 6:9).

That phrase, ‘because of their broken spirit,’ crashed into my brain and then exploded.

I know what a broken spirit feels like.  Many of you know it as well when your hopes have been crushed one more time, and you can’t even hear good news.

Look at their situation. The elders had believed the signs that Moses had offered from God (Exodus 4:31).  Hope was being kindled.  Moses goes to Pharaoh. Rather than being released, Pharaoh made the situation even worse for them, and they blamed Moses.

Their hopes had been crushed.  Even Moses says he can’t go back to Pharaoh (Exodus 6:12).

What do health, wealth and prosperity preachers do with that?  Obviously God won’t be able to do anything since these people all lack faith.

Except, of course, God isn’t constrained by anything!

God looks at his spirit-broken people and the very man he has called to lead them, and begins to move with such power that we’re still reading and talking about it thousands of years later.  God says such astonishing, outrageous (except that it is God saying them) things about his sovereignty over all things in the next chapters that we will either bow down and worship him for his majesty and goodness and wisdom, or we will reject him entirely.

And, the irony is, because God isn’t constrained by our lack of faith, we can have faith that he will do all that he has promised to do for those he has called.  That’s what made my brain explode – God looks at dead, unbelieving, anxious, hopeless, broken hearts, and makes them alive.  Not one hint of faith on the Israelite’s part, and he moves to rescue them.

Because he knows the ends from the beginning, and has promised that all things work together for good, and truly knows what love looks like in all situations, and has given us a future hope that is so glorious it is indescribable, we can have faith that even our broken spirits will bring God glory and will be for our good.

These are not easy days in our household; I am fighting discouragement on several fronts.  But I KNOW that God is not hindered in his purposes when I am battling the sins of unbelief and anxiety.  I know that my dependency on him rather than on myself brings him greater honor.

Do you have a broken spirit?  Pray. God will help.  Trust his blood-bought promises rather than your perceptions.

Do you know someone with a broken spirit, and they can’t hear anything you say?  God will help.  Pray, and trust him that he will do the right thing.  Pray, and by doing so fight for them when they can’t fight for themselves.

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This really doesn’t have anything to do with disability – except for this reminder to you Minnesotans to shovel your walk! Those with mobility issues and blind individuals using canes (and your neighbors) will appreciate not having to trudge through a foot of snow.  Use some ice melt as well.

South Carolina and Kansas transplants braved five inches of snow (more than seven by the time they left) to join our monthly Barnabas prayer meeting for friends serving as missionaries in Asia. (It was at our house, so our effort was a little less impressive!)

The prayer time was very sweet; we love these friends who live so far away answering the call of God on their lives.

For those same friends who probably aren’t experiencing snow right now (and our other friends in other places of the the world), we caught this picture on Sunday afternoon when the snow was coming down at about 1 – 2 inches per hour.  They were coming to eat the crab apples.

Spring will eventually get here.  This was from LAST week, when temperatures were closer to 50 degrees.

Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Matthew 6:26

Praise the Lord from the earth, you great sea creatures and all deeps, fire and hail, snow and mist, stormy wind fulfilling his word! Psalm 148:7-8

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The first time I read the ‘Any/Particular Distinction’ argument in defense of unborn children with disabilities, I knew it had to have its origins in a university or research institution.  It sounded academic, but it is built on a house of cards that cannot stand.

I don’t know if I’ve found the origins of that argument, but I have found a lengthy articulation.  While I have 116 notes on the book, Prenatal Testing and Disability Rights, there is really only one thought that needs to be addressed.  And rather than break it up into several posts, I’ll deal with it here and get back to happier things.

First, one positive aspect of this book that deserves attention.  Nearly all the contributors to this book recognize that the deck is stacked against parents making a truly informed decision about their child identified as having a disability before he or she is born.  The authors recognized that medical systems encourage abortion.  Many noted that we should spend more time and effort understanding several areas: the circumstances in our culture that encourage discrimination against people with disabilities; the wrong assumptions about the perceived quality of their lives; and the positive aspects of parenting a child with a disability.

That is helpful.  But they didn’t go nearly far enough.

And the core problem in their logic is that they granted a right to abortion even as they found selective abortions due to disability a problem worth addressing.

Adrienne Asch, Henry R. Luce Professor in Biology, Ethics, and the Politics of Human Reproduction at Wellesley College, wants to address the problem of selective abortion due to disability through the ‘Any/Particular Distinction.’  Here is how she describes it:

(T)his one characteristic of the embryo or fetus (disability) is the basis for the decision not to continue the pregnancy or to implant the embryo. That decision still concludes that one piece of information about a potential child suffices to predict whether the experience of raising that child will meet parental expectations. In most cases of preimplantation genetic diagnosis or prenatal diagnosis, the woman or couple desires to be pregnant at this time; the termination of the process only occurs because of something learned about this child. Adrienne Asch, Prenatal Testing and Disability Rights, p. 236

I completely agree with this aspect of Dr. Asch’s argument: many people do make the decision to abort simply on the basis of one piece of genetic information.

Unfortunately, the ‘Any/Particular Distinction’ is built on this foundation: abortion is acceptable when a woman chooses to abort for reasons unrelated to disability.  Only if disability is known does abortion become problematic.

And that is a terrible foundation.  If abortion is generally acceptable, the burden of creating exceptions is incredibly high.  And in this case, the exception that is desired simply doesn’t have any qualitative difference from the other reasons people choose to abort their babies.  For example:

  • Economics – relative financial security or ability, or perceived economic cost of the child, determines the acceptability of the child.
  • Number of Children – relative desire for family size (three children are acceptable and four are not; unless, of course, four are acceptable, or two, or six).
  • Timing – relative predictions about the future being a better time than now to have a child.
  • Parentage – having a child with this man’s genetics is unacceptable.
  • Sex – a desire for a girl after three boys; this unborn boy is unacceptable.
  • Disability – having a child with this physical genetic characteristic is unacceptable.

The list could go on.  And not one of them is based on principles, but in attempts to control an unknowable future.

One thing that isn’t relative about the list above – in every case, the child is dead.

Dr. Asch attempts to make the argument that because of how disability is perceived in this culture, there should be particular concerns for unborn children with disabilities to avoid selective abortions based exclusively on disability:

The property of ‘fourth-bornness’ (arguing against an assertion that a family who does not want a fourth child is similar to a family that does not want a child with disabilities) does not inhere in the fetus/child in the same way that disability does; the fourth-born child could just as easily have been the first or only child if adopted into another family. Moreover, being a fourth child, or even a family with four children, does not subject the child or the family to the invidious treatment that has marked the lives of people with disabilities. Asch, p. 237.

Invidious treatment is a definite problem. Living in a culture that hates disability is a definite problem as well.

But aborting a child simply because he is the fourth-born is also a problem!

Trying to carve out space where abortion is both acceptable (for ‘any’ child) and not acceptable (for this ‘particular’ child) will not address that societal issue about disability.  In fact, it won’t even save any babies with disabilities.  Parents will be offered other reasons, and the availability of abortion for THAT reason will result in the child being terminated.

After all, parents could choose an economic argument instead. There are real expenses related to most disabilities that typically-developing children do not incur.  So, the family has nothing against the child with the disability, but doesn’t want to bear the financial cost. (To be fair, Dr. Asch would say this demonstrates the problem she is trying to address; she argues that society should not expect families to bear all that cost, and this is further evidence that discrimination exists against people with disabilities.)  Or, parents could conclude, on further thought, having a third child really isn’t in their interests.  Or the timing of this pregnancy isn’t convenient, etc. etc.

The desire to protect unborn children with disabilities is laudable.  But leaving abortion as an acceptable option for other reasons simply moves the problem around and ultimately won’t protect these children.

Unfortunately, abortion is settled for most of the contributors of that book.  Another contributor, Dr. Steven Ralston stated it clearly:

I am pro-choice and I believe all women and couples should have the right to and access to abortion services regardless of their motivations. Period. Asch, p. 339.

Lest you think he was just being dogmatic in his beliefs, I found most of his chapter to be nuanced and thoughtful, which makes the above statement even more sad.  For example he also wrote:

I found myself continually questioning my underlying assumptions about prenatal diagnosis, genetic testing, parenthood, families and disability.  I wouldn’t say I was thrown into an existential crisis, but I certainly spent a lot of energy trying to resolve what for me was clearly a conflict: my belief that society would be better if it were more tolerant and accepting of those with different abilities and needs, and my belief that insofar as the world is not yet ideal, the decision to terminate a pregnancy with an abnormal fetus is reasonable.

He’s right about the conflict; those are two contradictory beliefs.

Unfortunately, his belief system is ultimately about a radical, unconstrained self-determination of the powerful, granting big people ultimate authority over tiny people.  How else to describe his conclusion about abortion “regardless of motivations”?  Even Dr. Asch includes ‘parental expectations’ as part of her argument even though no parent has ever accurately predicted what parenting would be like.

Those are not principles upon which anything can stand.

Self-determination leads to death, not just through abortion but in an eternal sense. “For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23)” and “the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23)” and “For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot (Romans 8:7).”

There is an eternal answer!  “BUT GOD, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved (Ephesians 2:4-5).”

And it is that God who supplies every need for families in our situations (Philippians 4:19), who truly knows the ends from the beginnings (Revelation 21:6), and who has plans to benefit us (Jeremiah 29:11).

In fact, the best argument of all is that because we are weak and unable to control or predict the future we should welcome our children with disabilities into our families, churches and society.  God himself has regard for the weak, will fulfill every promise he has made, and longs for us to enjoy him forever.

Because only God is truly strong and wise and knows the future, our weakness becomes a strong argument against aborting our children with disabilities – or any children.

So, I admit to being grateful for a secular argument being raised against aborting our children with disabilities.  But it does not have the power to save the little ones, nor does it have the power to save for eternal life.  And I fear in the end it actually makes it worse.

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For those of us with cognitively impaired children, especially those with severe impairment, we live with the question of what they can possibly know and understand about God.

I find comfort in who Jesus is, as expressed in his word.

We’ve been going through the book of John in our daily staff devotions, and have come to the great accounting of Jesus and Lazarus this week:

Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, by this time there will be an odor, for he has been dead four days.” Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God?” So they took away the stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this on account of the people standing around, that they may believe that you sent me.” When he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out.”  The man who had died came out, his hands and feet bound with linen strips, and his face wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.” John 11:38-44

It hit me fresh – Jesus was DEEPLY moved. Jesus was not hindered by Martha’s concerns.  Those in the crowd must have understood he had authority because they did, in fact, remove the stone. Jesus prayed like he already knew the outcome. Jesus was talking to a dead man.  Nothing works on a dead man.  Lazarus’ ears were literally decaying.  The cells in his brain were entirely, permanently still.

And when Jesus spoke, the dead man came out!

Our children with severe cognitive impairment have that kind of God who cares about them.

Pastor John included the accounting of Lazarus in a great meditation from several years ago:

But let us not tell Jesus what love is. Let us not instruct him how he should love us and make us central. Let us learn from Jesus what love is and what our true well-being is. Love is doing whatever you need to do to help people see and savor the glory of God forever and ever. Love keeps God central. Because the soul was made for God.

I don’t know what my son understands about God, and he can’t tell me.  But I know he was made for God’s glory.  And I know the one who made him is entirely unconstrained by his lack of cognitive abilities in this present age.  And how sweet it will be someday to talk and run and just look at our savior with my boy!

 

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My Paul has no eyes.  Jesus said it would be better for us to be like Paul, having no eyes, than to sin:

If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. Matthew 5:29

The following is a true story.

On Thursday a box of 10 Hostess Ho Hos made it into the van.  Three children and one adult each had one, leaving six.  The rest were being saved for ‘movie night’ on Friday.

One child simply could not stop thinking about those Ho Hos.

While the rest of the family was distracted with dinner guests Thursday evening, that child ate four more Ho Hos.  This same child also ate the last two for breakfast the next morning.

So, this child disobeyed mom, stole something that wasn’t his, considered his own desires ahead of his siblings, did not practice self-control, and allowed his eyes and his thoughts to constantly come back to what was tempting him.  These are typical, childish sins, of course.  But they were sins.

Paul has never been tempted to steal Ho Hos, or anything else for that matter.  He is completely free from that kind of sin.

And which child do we feel sorry for?

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