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From pity to joy

I spent a great few hours with Justin Reimer, executive director of The Elisha Foundation, this past weekend. God is doing some amazing work through that ministry for families experiencing disability.

He and I see a common happy consequence of disability ministry – people who get involved frequently feel blessed at the relationships they develop with the children with disabilities. Some who were motivated to get involved by a sense of pity or obligation have their entire perspectives changed and realize they are actually pursuing their own joy in mutually beneficial acts of love in these relationships.

I’m going to try to help people see that joy tomorrow night at Bethlehem’s Wednesday Connection, which begins about 6:15 p.m. There are hard things to talk about as well: abortion, infanticide, abuse. But the emphasis will be on God and his extraordinary goodness in all things for his glory and for our joy.

If you are in the Twin Cities, it would be great to see you and it would encourage others to see that there are a lot of us out there experiencing disability. It will be at Bethlehem’s Downtown Campus.

And please pray that God would keep me faithful to God’s word and helpful to our cause to let everyone know God is sovereign over hard things like disability.

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Today is a sad anniversary.

For 39 years we’ve lived with the consequences of the Supreme Court’s decision on Roe v. Wade.

But it won’t last.

Woe to him who builds a town with blood
and founds a city on iniquity!
Behold, is it not from the LORD of hosts
that peoples labor merely for fire,
and nations weary themselves for nothing?
For the earth will be filled
with the knowledge of the glory of the LORD
as the waters cover the sea.
Habakkuk 2:12-14 ESV

It is coming.  Let’s tell people about Jesus so they are happy, free and not condemned when Jesus himself makes ‘all things new’ (Revelation 21:5):

There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death. Romans 8:1-2 ESV

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Going to see some radicals

Lord willing, I’m either in transit or actually in Oregon when you read this.  I’m going to see some crazy people – most people do not know what to do with radicals like these!

They don’t look like radicals, do they?

God has made Craig and Susan (on the left) into pretty amazing people.

Their story is interesting.  The way they tell it, they were good-hearted, nice church people – then God moved on them to change their lives in ways they never could have expected.

Susan started a program to serve young mothers a few years ago – they’ve served more than 1,500 women and children!  All with volunteers and all with donations of clothes and baby items.  And every woman hears the gospel.  Here’s a five minute video that tells the story much better than I can.

Maybe the most telling comment is this one from Susan: A few years ago all my friends were basically like me.  Now my best friends have criminal records and tattoos!

They moved across the street from this ministry, which is located in a poor part of town.  God planted more dreams, and Craig responded in faith.  Most men don’t consider a radical shift from a professional career into the ministry at his age, but that’s what he’s doing.

They aren’t ‘nice’ people at all – joy-filled, hospitable, smart, kind, hard working – but not nice.  There is a tenacious clinging to Jesus for joy that is special.   Satan knows how dangerous they are.

So, I’m going to happily hang out with them for a few hours as they celebrate the launching of their new church that Craig will be leading.

Then I’ll drive down to Bend to spend time with more dangerous people.  Justin (the fellow on the right above) gave up a good business to work full-time on The Elisha Foundation, which is entirely dedicated to making Jesus known to families like ours through retreats, respite nights, and reaching out beyond the boundaries of the United States.  My family has experienced their God-centered, Christ-exalting, Spirit-filled hospitality – as have dozens of others.  This kind of pouring out of one’s life – looking the suffering of disability squarely in the eye and proclaiming the sovereignty and goodness of God – isn’t easy or simply.  But it is wonderful to experience.

I’m grateful to God for these people and how he has made them and sustains them.  I’m grateful to God for my wife’s generosity in releasing me for these three days as that is no simple thing either.  And I’m grateful to God for Desiring God posting (Lord willing) Pastor John’s message on Monday, as I won’t be in Minnesota to hear him deliver his annual pro-life message which God has used to change how I think about unborn life and the goodness and sovereignty of God.

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For my most recent blog post at Desiring God I spent time reviewing some of the shameful history of the church in the eugenics and abortion movements.  Similar to the church’s history with slavery, Dianne had to listen to me wonder how the religious proponents of eugenics at the turn of the 20th century and their theological children who support abortion in the 21st century could have been and are so unaware of the evil they were and are promoting.

And it makes me tremble to consider what evil I’m still clinging to that will be considered shameful in a hundred years.

Thankfully, J.C. Ryle gave me a shot of something strong and good and pure in the midst of a life that ‘may be weak, sickly, unhealthy, painful . . .”:

Faith is life. How great the blessing! Who can describe or realize the gulf between life and death? “A living dog is better than a dead lion.” (Eccles. ix. 4.)

And yet life may be weak, sickly, unhealthy, painful, trying, anxious, weary, burdensome, joyless, smileless to the very end. Assurance is more than life. It is health, strength, power, vigour, activity, energy, manliness, beauty. . .

Blessed, thrice blessed are they that believe! They are safe. They are washed. They are justified. They are beyond the power of hell. Satan, with all his malice, shall never pluck them out of Christ’s hand.

But he that has assurance does far better–sees more, feels more, knows more, enjoys more, has more days like those spoken of in Deuteronomy, even “the days of heaven upon the earth.” (Deut. xi. 21.)

J.C. Ryle, Holiness: Its Nature, Hindrances, Difficulties, and Roots, p. 190.

The argument from those who promote aborting unborn children with disabilities is that the parents don’t want the children to suffer and the parents themselves don’t want to suffer through their children’s suffering.  Somehow, this prior knowledge of suffering grants the right to rid ourselves of it, no matter the cost to a little human being.

Jesus had prior knowledge of his suffering, and he also had prior knowledge of something else:

. . . who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2 ESV

Let us live in this knowledge – joy is coming!  God will help us endure to the end.

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It seems right on this national Martin Luther King, Jr. Holiday to recognize that someday little black babies and little brown babies and little babies with disabilities of all colors will no longer be subject to the horror of abortion.

It is a focused horror.  I’ve covered the issue of abortion and babies with disabilities many times before, but it isn’t limited to disability.  Black babies are also targeted (thank you to The Radiance Foundation for this video):

It also seems right to warn those who would destroy them because they are black or brown or disabled or poor that this injustice will not stand, and it won’t be human judges who make the verdict:

For we know him who said, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay.” And again, “The Lord will judge his people.” It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. Hebrews 10:30-31 ESV

Jesus can cover this sin of abortion.  Isn’t that what we want – more people clinging to Jesus?  And that doesn’t just turn people away from doing horrible things to babies, but leads to joy!

And that’s the kind of justice I think we all want:

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36 ESV

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Pastor John just spoke to 45,000 young people in Atlanta this week.

Greg Lucas will be leading 12 families through Mark 9 the next couple of days at The Elisha Foundation’s winter retreat for families experiencing disability.

I’m so glad Jesus showed us it is important to reach big crowds and small!

When he went ashore he saw a great crowd, and he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. And he began to teach them many things.
(Mark 6:34 ESV)

And they brought to him a man who was deaf and had a speech impediment, and they begged him to lay his hand on him. And taking him aside from the crowd privately, he put his fingers into his ears, and after spitting touched his tongue. And looking up to heaven, he sighed and said to him, “Ephphatha,” that is, “Be opened.” And his ears were opened, his tongue was released, and he spoke plainly.
(Mark 7:32-35 ESV)

As you know, Greg is the writer of Wrestling with an Angel, the book I enthusiastically recommend to families experiencing any kind of hardship, but especially disability.  He is also a gifted speaker.  Most of all, he loves Jesus.

He emailed me this prayer request:

Please continue to pray for us at TEF. We have 12 families. A lot of hurt.

“A lot of hurt.”  He didn’t need to say more.  May God meet each and every one of them this weekend with the magnificence of Jesus Christ!

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
(Philippians 4:7 ESV)

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Another encouraging word from Jan Lacher.

Please note how much Jan invests in both the church and in Michael.  It isn’t always possible, I know.  I’m not even suggesting it is always wise.  That’s why every engagement in the church that needs to be different because of disability should be prayed for ‘without ceasing,’ asking and expecting God’s help.

But I love this example of God using this family to guide the hearts of boys.  What might God be preparing them for as men?

Here’s Jan’s update:

Here is a little update on Michael’s Wednesday night connection class to encourage you to press on dear brothers and sisters. As you know, we have “mainstreamed” Michael into his class for about three years. Currently, we are in Diane’s (team leader) Wednesday 3/4th grade class.  I attend the classes with the Fox to care for him.  I typically glean tremendous truths from the rich lessons that are taught.  I love seeing Michael’s peers and enjoy interacting with them.

God has done incredible work in the hearts of people to include Michael even when it is hard or uncomfortable.

Last night, before the class, Michael’s teacher, Mr. P asked me if he could call upon Michael and have us place a visual on the poster during the lesson.  We are currently studying the Biblical definition of a fool. I raised my eyebrows and agreed on Michael’s behalf to have him “do” it–that is if they can part the Red Sea of chairs to allow us access to the front of the class.

We usually sit in the back of the room.  It allows me to come and go with Michael as needed.

The lesson began.  At one point, Mr. P called upon Michael to place the visual.  The kids gasped–Michael, do it? Some exclaimed, “YEAH, Michael!”

I cautioned Mr. P, as we approached the front, to protect his computer that he uses during the lesson, as Michael would find it fair game to bang on the floor. Mr. P did so.

We made our way forward with Michael’s teacher asking the class,  “On which road should the foolish heart be placed?”  They answered appropriately.  We placed (I placed) the visual on the poster, and I turned to wheel Michael to the back of the room.  The boys in the room started to chant, “MICHAEL!” followed by clap, clap, clap; “MICHAEL!” clap, clap, clap.  Some of the girls joined in.  I was moved by their kindnesses to him.  Michael rolled side to side in the wheelchair with excitement.  My heart was swollen in gratitude.

I think that when people see how God uses all types of people–people like Michael–they are blessed and are more apt to take a risk and do that which is out of the comfort zone.   May God be honored and praised and glorified.

Amen, Jan.  And thank you for letting Michael lead us to God.

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Pastor John ruined my morning!

Pastor John ruined our Thursday morning.

In a good way!

He sent the link for the video below, which I watched early Thursday morning.  I told Dianne she needed to watch it, so we did so together.  Then, as the children got up, they all watched it as well.

We are not a well-oiled machine to begin with, but we generally know we have to keep moving to get everyone where they need to be.  Taking out 30 minutes from our routine basically meant we were in a mad scramble the rest of the morning!

Yet, not a complaint could be found; we were all pretty happy.

This is what ruined our morning:

What is it in our hearts that wants to know others understand, that we aren’t alone, that there are people who don’t just live a life of disability, but live THIS life of disability?

From the moment I saw this dad lift his son and guide him to the center of stage – I’ve lifted Paul like that, with his elbows close in to the body!  That little cane with the marshmallow tip – Paul had one of those for years!  That little hand making sure his dad was near – that’s what Paul does!  The finger flicking, the rocking while he sang, the thumb and fingers around his chin and neck – Paul does that!

The unselfconscious singing.

Even his dad admitting he might not be able to keep his composure!

Yes, it was sweet.

God is good.

And this is still my favorite ‘catch’ of Paul singing!

 

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I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works;
my soul knows it very well.
(Psalm 139:14 ESV)

In August when Paul was in the hospital and hooked up to several different kinds of monitors, I had the chance to see his brain fire with activity even though he looked entirely out of it.  This was especially true when his mother and his sister talked to him.

We all realized there is a lot going on in that head of his even when he couldn’t show it or respond to us.

I just finished reading an astonishing article on that subject: A Drug That Wakes the Near Dead in the New York Times Magazine.

There is no reference to God or spirituality in this article, but I found myself worshipping our God who creates and sustains such an elaborate mechanism as the brain.  There is some amazing stuff in this article.

And some hard things, including reminders that parents are frequently the first and last protectors of their children with disabilities, including adult children.  Things change in families that experience disability:

The Coxes have surrounded themselves with a new group of friends — other parents with children like Chris. The families in this informal group share strategies and trade information on emerging research and experimental treatments. They also talk of weariness and isolation. “At the end of the day, you feel like you’re a thousand years old,” Judy says. “And you have no idea how you’re going to get up and do it all over again tomorrow.”

Actually, I do have an idea, and I hope you do as well:

I have forgotten what happiness is;
so I say, “My endurance has perished;
so has my hope from the LORD.”
Remember my affliction and my wanderings,
the wormwood and the gall!
My soul continually remembers it
and is bowed down within me.
But this I call to mind,
and therefore I have hope:
The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases;
his mercies never come to an end;
they are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
“The LORD is my portion,” says my soul,
“therefore I will hope in him.”
(Lamentations 3:17-24 ESV)

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It happened again, this time in Australia.

A woman was advised that one of her twins would have serious medical issues, so she decided to abort that twin.

The hospital made a mistake during the procedure.  The twin without medical issues was killed.  And then the other twin was also aborted.

It has also happened in Italy and the United States.  Here are the headlines for each:

Australia: Hospital kills wrong baby, aborts twin.

Italy: Italian police to investigate abortion of wrong twin

United States: Doctor loses license after aborting wrong twin

Every headline is mistaken.  There is no ‘wrong’ twin in any of these circumstances.  Only helpless unborn babies, every one of them.

The only reason any of these babies was chosen to be aborted was because of potential disabling conditions.

The answer isn’t better medical tests or more specific hospital guidelines, but changed hearts that rush to help mothers and babies rather than destroy them.

And where were the fathers?

Lord, please, change our hearts for the sake of the little ones!

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