Hannah’s eighth grade graduation was last night. I had never been to an eighth grade graduation before.
I wasn’t too surprised when the worship song to open the ceremony was Our God by Chris Tomlin. The woman who leads the young people in their chapel uses excellent judgment in her choice of music and lessons.
But I was surprised – and delighted – at what happened after that:
- The valedictorian concluded her speech with a reference to Jeremiah 29:11:
- For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
- The father who was invited to speak (who told us he was not a pastor) did a really nice exposition on 2 Corinthians 4:16-18:
- So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
- When I say ‘nice’ I don’t mean it was pleasant; I mean he dug into it in really helpful ways. When I thanked him for it afterward, his first response was to honor God.
- The salutatorians closed the ceremony with prayer “because that’s what we do here.”
I was expecting a nice evening; what God provided was wonderful blessing and encouragement.
Paul, as usual, was not impressed by any of this.
Hannah, as usual, wasn’t the least bit upset or embarrassed by her brother.
Some of God’s most encouraging gifts come at the most unexpected times. It was a good day, indeed.



“God walloped me in the heart. . .” Christine Hoover
Posted in commentary, News on June 16, 2012| 2 Comments »
I hope you’ve seen Christine Hoover’s outstanding post at Desiring God: Battling the Bitterness of Parenting a Disabled Child.
Many of us have experienced that day of birth (in our case) or diagnosis where disability is suddenly part of your life and future. And many of us have experienced what Christine experienced: “a year-long spiral of grief and confusion.” Or longer.
Our culture and our own sinful desires are ready to fuel our bitterness unless we turn to someone greater than we are. People have told me Paul doesn’t deserve the live he has, and that ‘good people’ like me deserve better; I have, too frequently, been willing to go down that path. We know we must often advocate to get services that benefit our children, which gives us skill and experience in how to tear into others, including others in our own churches and families.
We must turn to God or we will be consumed by our own hurt and bitterness.
I don’t know Christine Hoover and didn’t know this would be posted until I saw it myself at DG’s website. To say I was heartened by her subject matter and how she dealt with it is an understatement!
God is up to something – there has been more work written and more interest in what the Bible has to say about disability (by people who actually believe the Bible) in the past few years than ever before. The Internet clearly has allowed more of us to get to know each other and encourage each other, but it feels bigger than that. Even as dark and evil as these days seem, I wonder if God is preparing us for something big using those the world considers the most weak and useless? Let us pray that is so!
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