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Sam Crabtree, one of my pastors, has started a blog at Bethlehem’s web site and talked about a recent turn of events that left him incapacitated for a time.  He was no longer ‘temporarily able-bodied.’

That term, ‘temporarily able-bodied’ shows up now and then in things I read.   Generally it is used to poke at anyone who thinks ‘normal’ physical and mental functioning is, in fact, the norm.  If we live long enough, most of us will experience a loss of function, and eventually we will all die.  Thus, being able-bodied is termed by some to be the temporary state of our lives.

Pastor Sam wrote two blog posts following his hospitalization that firmly state what he hopes in – and it isn’t physical functioning, normal or otherwise.  Here is an example:  

5.    My disappointment in this deteriorating body is soaked with hope. While in the emergency room I looked Vicki in the eyes and quietly said, “I might not be around tomorrow.” Because of Christ, we both know I’ll be around Tomorrow. Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord.—2 Corinthians 5:8

Disappointment – yes!  We do experience disappointment when our bodies fail us.  Or when we watch our children with disabilities struggle with their  bodies or their minds.

Soaked with hope – yes!  Like the post yesterday of Pastor John’s greeting, we can hope in God (Psalm 42:5) in all circumstances, particularly when things seem at their worst. 

Because of Christ, we both know I’ll be around Tomorrow – yes!  Our current state will be replaced with a great and permanent and increasingly joy-filled eternity with Christ.  But only because of Christ – not through anything we did or could hope to do to earn it.

Paul, writing to the Corinthians, put it this way:  sorrowful, yet always rejoicing (2 Corinthians 6:10). 

Thank you, Pastor Sam, for living like you preach – with integrity, good humor, and deep affections for Jesus.  You are a great encouragement!

You can read his two posts here:  

Eight Ways to Not Waste the Blood Clots on My Lungs, Part 1

Eight Ways to Not Waste the Blood Clots on My Lungs, Part 2

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I love to find other men who write with a passion for God as they parent their disabled children.  One such dad is Greg Lucas who writes the blog Wrestling with an Angel.

Here’s an excerpt from his recent post, “Sovereign Solution to a Cold Case Crime.

My son is not a pitiful tragedy blamed on negligence or ignorance. He is a mysterious element of a divine plan. A predestined purpose of God’s will to the praise of His glorious grace. A display of the immeasurable greatness of God’s power according to the working of His great might.

Amen, Greg.  Thanks for writing, for loving your son, and for making much of Jesus.

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If you were to have asked me “what do you think the combination of autism, blindness, failure to thrive and mental retardation would be like” back in February 1994, I’m not sure how I would have answered.  But I’m sure I would have described it as unpleasant, maybe even horrifying, and certainly sad.

Fast forward 15 years and I live with a boy with all that stuff.  Yet he lives with more freedom than I do, personifying Jesus’ command:

“Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat, nor about your body, what you will put on. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing.”  Luke 12:22-23

Paul doesn’t even think about tomorrow, let alone worry about it.  

Of course my boy must have his mom and dad consider his needs.  He is one of the most vulnerable boys on the planet.  But what he doesn’t know (or at least cannot articulate) which I know from God’s word is that the creator of the universe, the maker and owner of everything, allows me to come to him.

The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:5b-7

Unlike my boy, who naturally lives without anxiety about tomorrow, I have to fight anxious thoughts.  I’m grateful God answers, frequently and supernaturally, with peace that guards my heart and mind.

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The man featured yesterday on the cover of Just the Way I Am is Kempton Turner, a pastor at Bethlehem.  God has made him into a remarkable man.

God gave a special gift to my family, which is echoed by all the families with disabled children, when he called Kempton and Caryn and their children to Bethlehem over two years ago.  They are a joy-filled, God-centered couple who fill up our network of families with encouragement in the word and confidence in God.  I count it a privilege to know them.  And I recommend Caryn’s blog as well!

Pastor Kempton was interviewed last year on a local radio station regarding his multiply disabled son and the sovereignty of God.  That interview was included in this week’s Bethlehem Star, our weekly church e-newsletter.

You can read the entire article here.

Here is an excerpt:

So, how are you able to hold up in the midst of such a heavy and painful and life-long trial?
We are not able to “hold up.” We are “held up” by the God of Isaiah 41:10 who says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Jesus, our Creator-Savior, who “holds all things together,” holds us up “by the word of his power”! (Colossians 1:17, Hebrews 1:3). Are we sometimes depressed and discouraged? Yes. But we preach the Word to ourselves, “Soul, hope in God!” (Psalm 42:5–6) and God’s word produces a happy hope in our hearts again and again, even unto this day.

So God allowed this (his son to be born with disabilities)?
No, God did it, not just allowed it. The Bible says so in passages like Exodus 4:11, Psalm 139:13, and John 9:3. It was God’s good and purposeful design to create Christian just the way he is for our good and His glory.

Now that’s the way to talk about God!

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Happy Birthday, Christian!

Christian Turner is one of my favorite works of God, and it is his birthday today (Wednesday)!

See pictures and a delightful, God-honoring testimony from his mother here.

The handsome man in the pictures is his father.  Kempton is one of my pastors at Bethlehem, and a man I deeply respect.  He loves Jesus, and knows how to preach – you can listen to him here!

Thank you, Father, for this boy and for his entire family.  They are a precious gift to me and to Bethlehem!  Amen.

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Abortion is about marketing?

Frances Kissling, the former president of Catholics for Choice and Kate Michelman, the former president of NARAL Pro-Choice America, wrote an opinion piece in the Washington Post a week before what is now known as the Tim Tebow Super Bowl ad was aired.

Titled “What Tim Tebow’s Super Bowl ad can teach the pro-choice movement,” they seem to believe that the leaders in the pro-life movement are just better at messaging than those who support abortion.  For example:

People want to be inspired, and abortion is as tough and courageous a decision as is the decision to continue a pregnancy. But the conversation is being led by Focus on the Family and its quarterback ambassador. It’s a high-profile example of the savvy way the antiabortion movement has tailored its message. . .

Women’s and choice groups responding to the Tebow ad should take a page from the Focus on the Family playbook. Erin Matson, the National Organization for Women’s new vice president, called the Tebow spot “hate masquerading as love.” That kind of comment may play well in the choice choir, but to others, it makes no sense, at best; at worst, it’s seen as the kind of stridency that reinforces the view that pro-choice simply means pro-abortion.

Yes, I would agree it reinforces that view.

The editorial struck me as odd.  Without any sense of irony or even acknowledging a difference in principles, they talk about the abhorrent practice of partial-birth abortion, the numbers of abortions in 1989, the advances that science has allowed in watching the development of a baby in the womb, how Americans increasingly consider themselves pro-life, and even quote an African-American football player equating Roe v. Wade with the shameful Dred Scott Decision of the Supreme Court in 1857.  And Frances Kissling and Kate Michelman are for legalized abortion!  Talk about a problem with marketing.

They close their editorial with this paragraph:

So here’s our Super Bowl strategy for the choice movement. We’d go with a 30-second spot, too. The camera focuses on one woman after another, posed in the situations of daily life: rushing out the door in the morning for work, flipping through a magazine, washing dishes, teaching a class of sixth-graders, wheeling a baby stroller. Each woman looks calmly into the camera and describes her different and successful choice: having a baby and giving it up for adoption, having an abortion, having a baby and raising it lovingly. Each one being clear that making choices isn’t easy, but that life without tough choices doesn’t exist.

Of course life includes difficult choices; that isn’t even an argument worth raising.  This is not a marketing campaign.  And I notice there are some important female voices not included in the above suggestions from Frances Kissling and Kate Michelman: the more than 500,000 baby girls who were aborted last year.

Part of the controversy, though it did not end up in the ads that I saw, was the fact that Pam Tebow chose to continue her pregnancy with Tim even though there was a risk of fetal deformity.  Pam Tebow chose the better, harder path – and ended up with a Heisman Trophy-winning son.

Now, 23 years later, doctors can diagnose more accurately and at earlier stages of development many types of disabilities in the womb.  Going forward, more women will know with greater certainty that the unborn child they carry has a disability.  And we must still make the case that having that child is the better, harder path to take.

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February is Black History Month in the United States, so it seems appropriate to point out a common evil: abortions are disproportionately carried out on babies with disabilities and babies with black skin.

Abort73.com reports what this means in percentages and actual numbers of black children being aborted:

According to the most recent census data, black women make up 12.3% of the female population in America, but account for 35% of all U.S. abortions – that according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). The Guttmacher Institute (AGI) puts the percentage of black abortions at 37% of the U.S. total. . .

Not only are black children being killed at a far greater percentage than white children, they’re being killed in greater numbers, period. Is that not shocking?! Though the white population in the U.S. outnumbers the black population five to one, abortion kills more black children than white children, every day.

And what should our response be?

John Ensor provides this endorsement of one strategy:

African-American Sylvia Johnson created a “best practice” pregnancy help clinic in Houston starting in the 1980’s. For nearly 25 years she has been quietly cross-bearing for the child-bearing. By 2033, I expect the Black Church to have opened similar clinics in the most abortion-targeted neighborhoods of our cities. Where they open, abortion businesses close (emphasis mine)—because most women resort to abortion more than choose it; and when they are provided help they choose life.

Let us find many more ways  to help women and men choose life.

But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”  Matthew 19:14

Let the little children come – all of them, including the babies with disabilities and the babies who would be born with black skin.

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Lord willing, Krista Horning’s book, Just the Way I Am, will be ready in March for distribution.

It is one of the most important books on disability and the Bible yet written.  You will understand that is not an exaggeration when you see it.

Pastor John has been wonderfully supportive of its creation, and you can listen to what he had to say about it a couple of weeks ago.  This clip is about 90 seconds long:

John Piper on Just the Way I Am by Krista Horning

He made that statement during his January 24, 2010 sermon, Born Blind for the Glory of God.  If you have been touched at all by disability, this is a sermon you will want to watch.

Please pray that the book will be ready soon!  I will provide more details as I have them.

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The Desiring God Conference for Pastors is over and all the messages can be found here.

I met some incredible men over the three days.  Some of those men have dealt with extraordinary personal pain:

  • The murder of a daughter two years ago
  • The sudden death of a wife due to an illness
  • A premature baby still in the hospital

There were others, and judging by attendance in the prayer room and after the Tuesday evening session, the pastors experiencing deep waters outnumbered those who are not.

There were two consistent things I observed in and heard from these leaders who are experiencing joy in God in the midst of serious trials:

  1. They are God-centered, Bible-saturated, and aware of their need to fight for joy and against their sin;
  2. God has given them people who love them and serve them and pray for them.

I want to be part of that second group for my pastors!  I’m not entirely sure what that means for me as I write this.  I know it includes prayer – and I love praying for the many men God has used in my life at Bethlehem.

Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching. 1 Timothy 5:17

I have been ‘ruled well’ by my pastors and want to give them double honor. What can we do for these men who carry so much as they faithfully serve their churches?

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Thank you to Jan Lacher for pointing me to Dr. Al Mohler’s blog for Wednesday.

Dr. Mohler provided a critique of The Shack by William Paul Young.  More than 10 million copies have been sold.

Because Pastor John just preached on the subject of Jesus and the man born blind, this paragraph from Dr. Mohler’s blog jumped out at me, particularly the sentence in bold:

While the literary device of an unconventional “trinity” of divine persons is itself sub-biblical and dangerous, the theological explanations are worse. “Papa” tells Mack of the time when the three persons of the Trinity “spoke ourself into human existence as the Son of God.” Nowhere in the Bible is the Father or the Spirit described as taking on human existence. The Christology of the book is likewise confused. “Papa” tells Mack that, though Jesus is fully God, “he has never drawn upon his nature as God to do anything. He has only lived out of his relationship with me, living in the very same manner that I desire to be in relationship with every human being.”  When Jesus healed the blind, “He did so only as a dependent, limited human being trusting in my life and power to be at work within him and through him. Jesus, as a human being, had no power within himself to heal anyone.” (emphasis mine)

Please note, that sentence is from The Shack.  Dr. Mohler does not hold to that statement.

Now contrast that sentence with some familiar passages where Jesus demonstrates or claims authority to heal for himself:

But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins”—he said to the paralytic— “I say to you, rise, pick up your bed, and go home.” And he rose and immediately picked up his bed and went out before them all, so that they were all amazed and glorified God, saying, “We never saw anything like this!”  Mark 2:10-12

And Jesus went with them. When he was not far from the house, the centurion sent friends, saying to him, “Lord, do not trouble yourself, for I am not worthy to have you come under my roof.  Therefore I did not presume to come to you. But say the word, and let my servant be healed. For I too am a man set under authority, with soldiers under me: and I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and to another, ‘Come,’ and he comes; and to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.”  When Jesus heard these things, he marveled at him, and turning to the crowd that followed him, said, “I tell you, not even in Israel have I found such faith.” And when those who had been sent returned to the house, they found the servant well. Luke 7:6-10

What do you want me to do for you?” Jesus said, “Lord, let me recover my sight.” 42 And Jesus said to him, “Recover your sight; your faith has made you well.” 43 And immediately he recovered his sight and followed him, glorifying God. And all the people, when they saw it, gave praise to God. Luke 18:41-43

Jesus claims authority, uses his authority, and does not correct people who believe he has authority over his creation.  Most importantly:

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God.  All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made.  In him was life, and the life was the light of men.  The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. John 1:1-5

Jesus is God, always has been God and always will be God.

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