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In a Friday New York Times editorial, The Shame of New York’s Group Homes, the closing sentence makes a clear and urgent moral pronouncement:

The answer lies in the state’s urgent obligation to protect those who cannot defend themselves.

They are absolutely correct, though it is not just the state who has an obligation to protect the defenseless.  In this case they are speaking of those living in group homes because of their developmental disabilities.

Please pray The New York Times would extend this logic to those even more defenseless: children in the womb.  Imagine the impact that could have if God were to wake up The New York Times editorial board to see this issue clearly!

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I’ve mentioned the bio-ethicist Peter Singer before, and his arguments to kill infants with disabilities.

Members of the Supreme Court of the United States have also held such views about people with disabilities.

Paul Lombardo’s horrifying history of a case brought before the Supreme Court, Buck v. Bell, includes this statement from Oliver Wendel Holmes, Jr., Associate Justice of the United States Supreme Court, 1902 – 1932:

As I have said, no doubt, often, it seems to me that all society rests on the death of men.  If you don’t kill ’em one way you kill ’em another – or prevent their being born.

Lombardo goes on to say:

He had no compunctions about ‘restricting propagation by the undesirables and putting to death infants that didn’t pass examination.’  Lombardo, p. 165

For a season the eugenics movement in the United States had the backing of the Supreme Court, powerful members of congress, a couple of United States presidents, influential philanthropists, university professors, scientists, and even members of the clergy.

That season is gone.  The organizations that grew up out of that movement, like Planned Parenthood, have needed to entirely change their message to continue to exist.

May it be so for this evil season of abortion as well.

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After Paul had his ‘spell’ in church on Sunday, we made our way up to the sanctuary and needed to sit in the balcony.

The first thing I saw – five leaders who I love:  Pastor John, Pastor Sam, Pastor David standing together; Pastor Kempton across the aisle with his bride, Caryn; and Pastor Chuck leading worship in song.

There is a reason why we were so well served in Paul’s class: God’s continued supply of God-centered, service-oriented leadership.  Every one of those five men have been required to do hard things in their service to the church.  Yet that constancy of clinging to God permeates the place, and results in volunteers who do hard things to love on families like ours.

Earlier in the week I had lunch with one of our younger pastors – who is attempting to do hard things with the strength and wisdom God provides.  And I had lunch with two pastors of a different church who had just come through a very difficult set of circumstances.  And God provided help in some spectacular ways.

Those of us parenting children with disabilities are trained by all the systems we combat to be advocates – and sometimes our advocacy behavior spills over into the church in ways that aren’t very pretty.

But on Sunday as I looked at those five men, I could testify to their steadfastness in clinging to Jesus and pursuing the good of their people.

So, just a reminder – pray for your pastor.  We ask a great deal from them.

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Pastor John started his sermon on John 8 this past Sunday by talking about the evangelical bubble we can find ourselves in.  It isn’t a bad place to be – it includes all the people who believe what we believe, and love what we love and talk about things we like to talk about.

Frankly, that’s one of the reasons I like my church so much.

He went on to say that there are people out there, hundreds and hundreds of leaders in churches and universities, who don’t believe what we believe.  And they make statements about God’s word that are shocking to those of us who live in this bubble.  Pastor John offered a couple of examples, including quoting a professor from Duke University.

He was right. His examples were shocking.

But they weren’t surprising to me.

Disability has forced me to engage certain ‘religious’ sectors that I never would have known existed.  For example, more than a decade ago I attended a conference on disability and the church and heard a Jewish Rabbi respond to a question about how to deal with the ‘hard’ passages in the Bible on disability.  This Rabbi assumed Leviticus 21 was being referenced in the question.  He very seriously responded that “we just ignore those passages; we know better now.”

I had NEVER heard anything like that before. Yet the general response in that crowd wasn’t the confusion and disappointment I was feeling, but a general sense that he was right.

But it didn’t have the effect I think that Rabbi was intending.  Rather than settle the question, or make me retreat into the bubble, God gave me a very keen interest in the subject of disability and the Bible.  Since that conference, I have read hundreds of journal articles on the Bible and disability.  Most shock me in how breezily they dismiss aspects of God’s word, his character or his authority.  Some of the arguments are just silly, but because they are ‘novel’ or ‘cutting edge’ they get a serious reading in otherwise serious journals.

It has had the impact of making me read the Bible much more carefully, and to ask, regularly, for the Holy Spirit’s help in understanding what I am reading.

I count that as a good thing.

If we have an interest in disability and the Bible, we will run into horrible arguments.  We’ve dealt with those issues a few times in this forum:

So, I’m glad for that evangelical bubble.  I like reading books from my ‘tribe’ and I like going to church and I like reading blogs by men like Justin Taylor and Kevin DeYoung and Tim Challies.

But it isn’t for the purpose of living in that bubble, but to get ready for what I know is out there.  And that’s where Jesus is, outside the camp (Hebrews 13:13).

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On Sunday morning it was almost one of ‘those’ days.  But we pushed through together and made it to church on time.

About two minutes after dropping Paul off, he had one of his seizure-like episodes.  We hadn’t even made it out of the hallway up to the sanctuary.

But, rather than giving up, the room leader (who I also happen to know through her volunteering at Desiring God) just wanted to make sure it was ok for him to stay.  These episodes are frightening to watch, but she knew that a significant part of her job is helping families like mine experience worship and preaching.

After these spells, Paul mostly wants to sleep, so he wasn’t going to be demanding much attention.  And Paul’s aid is both an experienced health care professional and a long-term volunteer with him.

So, the rest of us went up to worship.

We were late by this time, but we were in the sanctuary.  We were in the sanctuary because the children’s ministry is oriented toward serving the children AND their families.  And sometimes families are best served when a child with multiple disabilities who has an unknown seizure-like disorder sleeps on his volunteer’s lap.

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In his very helpful address at the Children Desiring God conference, Russell Moore drew clear attention to our enemy:

We rage against the reptile, not against his prey.

The reptile, of course, is Satan.

It can feel like he’s winning this war.  In this article from Saturday’s New York Times (login may be required; not appropriate for young children), the depths of our culture’s disregard for adults with severe disabilities living in group homes was apparent:

And, despite a state law requiring that incidents in which a crime may have been committed be reported to law enforcement, such referrals are rare: State records show that of some 13,000 allegations of abuse in 2009 within state-operated and licensed homes, fewer than 5 percent were referred to law enforcement. The hundreds of files examined by The Times contained shocking examples of abuse of residents with conditions like Down syndromeautism and cerebral palsy.

Stories like these make me fully appreciate when parents say things like, “my prayer is to live one day longer than my child.”  The evil of this present age is horrifying, especially in light of how vulnerable my son is because of his multiple disabilities.

Pastor John helpfully reminds us that God is not just full of mercy:

God is more than merciful. He is also just. Verse 19 (of Romans 12) makes this crystal clear: “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” No wrong will go without punishment. The wrath of God will repay every wrong either in the suffering and death of Christ for those who repent and believe on him, or in hell for those who don’t. So when we return good for evil, it’s not only because God is merciful, but also because God is just. We display his mercy and we defer to his justice.  John Piper, When Is It Right to Repay Evil with Pain?, March 13, 2005

That doesn’t mean we are passive about evil.  We can pursue justice, but we do so through proper institutions and with a proper heart:

And God calls us to uphold justice as part of the God-ordained institutions we belong to—and all this to show people what God is like in his justice, and how he frees us to do justice without a malicious spirit.  Piper, same sermon

To my family members and friends in law enforcement: John, Andrew, Chris and Greg, I am very grateful God has called you to face the evil of this age as representatives of the civil authorities God has appointed.  And I am grateful that your experiences with your cousin, sister, and children with disabilities have shaped your understanding about people with disabilities as part of God’s creation worth protecting, nurturing and esteeming.

And I’m grateful that, someday, your services will no longer be needed.  Come quickly, Lord Jesus!

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One of the arguments raised in support of abortion is that we can prevent the suffering that comes with disability.  In essence, it is better to destroy a child with disabilities than to let him live a life that may include suffering, for himself and for his family.

There are too many people who believe that lie.

Pastor John goes right at that question in Brothers, We Are Not Professionals (emphasis in bold is mine):

5.  By judging difficult and even tragic human life as a worse evil than taking life, abortionists contradict the wide-spread Biblical teaching that God loves to show His gracious power through suffering and not just by helping people avoid suffering.

This does not mean we should seek suffering for ourselves or for others. But it does mean that suffering is generally portrayed in the Bible as the necessary and God-ordained, though not God-pleasing plight of this fallen world (Rom. 8:20-25; Ezek. 18:32). It is seen as the necessary portion of all who would enter the kingdom (Acts 14:22; 1 Thess. 3:3-4) and live lives of godliness (2 Tim. 3:12). This suffering is never viewed merely as a tragedy.  It is also viewed as a means of growing deep with God and becoming strong in this life (Rom. 5:3-5; James 1:3-4; Heb. 12:3-11; 2 Cor. 1:9; 4:7-12; 12:7-10) and becoming something glorious in the life to come (2 Cor. 4:17; Rom. 8:18).

When abortionists argue that taking life is less evil than the difficulties that will accompany life, they are making themselves wiser than God who teaches us that His grace is capable of stupendous feats of love through the suffering of those who live.

John Piper, Brothers, We Are Not Professionals, p. 223.

Personal note: until Think: The Life of the Mind and the Love of God came out, Brothers, We Are Not Professionals was my favorite Piper book.

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Most Americans, even those who generally support a ‘right’ to abortion, don’t like the idea of later-term abortions.

Ann Furedi points out why this is intellectually dishonest:

To the ‘ethical straddlers’ concerned about gestation we must ask: is there anything qualitatively different about a fetus at, say, 28 weeks that gives it a morally different status to a fetus at 18 weeks or even eight weeks? It certainly looks different because its physical development has advanced. At 28 weeks we can see it is human – at eight weeks a human embryo looks much like that of a hamster. But are we really so shallow, so fickle, as to let our view on moral worth be determined by appearance? Even if at five weeks we can only see an embryonic pole, we know that it is human. The heart that can be seen beating on an ultrasound scan at six weeks is as much a human heart as the one that beats five months later.

That sounds like a great case against all abortions!

However, she’s actually arguing the opposite.

The moral principle at stake in the debate on later abortions, the one that genuinely matters, has been ignored completely in the recent discussions. This is the principle of moral autonomy in respect of reproductive decisions. To argue that a woman should no longer be able to make a moral decision about the future of her pregnancy, because 20 or 18 or 16 weeks have passed, assaults this and, in doing so, assaults the tradition of freedom of conscience that exists in modern pluralistic society.

Let’s remember what moral autonomy gets us on ANY issue:

None is righteous, no, not one (Romans 3:10).

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23).

For the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23).

And let us also not forget what moral autonomy means in this case – the destruction of a small human being by larger human beings.

Even a pluralistic society dictates limits on that sort of behavior for the sake of the weaker members.  Where that weaker member lives shouldn’t make a difference.

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Disability is, almost by definition, painful.  If there isn’t physical pain, then there is the pain of being different, of being rejected by others, of everything just seeming to be harder than it needs to be.  And permanent disability lasts a long, long time.

Where is God in this?

Paul Tripp, in Broken Bone Hymns:

Now, you have to ask, “Why would a God of love ever bring pain into the lives of the people he says he loves?”

The difficult things that you experience as God’s child that may seem like the result of God’s unfaithfulness and inattention or anger are actually acts of redemptive love.

You see, in bringing these things into our lives God is actually fulfilling his covenantal commitment to satisfy the deepest needs of his people.

And what is it that we need the most?

The answer is simple and clear throughout all of Scripture: more than anything else we need him.

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If you have not already read this entry by John Ensor on the Desiring God blog, please take a minute to do so.

I have lingered over these sentences in particular:

The blood-guilt of abortion festers under the surface of all Christian endeavor. It needs lancing. It needs to be outed. It needs to be called out by name, confessed by name, and brought under a gospel that declares that there is no forgiveness for the shedding of innocent blood except by the shedding of innocent blood.

Yes, Jesus is the answer to this incredible, horrible reality we live with.  The sin-cleansing blood of Jesus can cover even this, and set people free.

And we need to make sure that disability gets included in this ‘outing.’  There are Christian people who would say they are against abortion, but become ambivalent about it when the child is known to have a disability.

Ambivalence will not win the day. Ignorance will not win the day. The truth of God’s sovereignty over all things for the joy of all peoples through Jesus Christ – there is hope there!

Thank you, John Ensor, for another piercing, helpful, God-centered commentary.

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