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I’ve read many of Pastor John’s sermons and conference messages.  There’s something about reading that helps me understand something more thoroughly, even if I’ve watched or listened to it more than once.

Krista Horning shared the transcript of her talk at the disability conference.  I felt the same way reading her words and was helped, again.

It will be posted in its entirety with her video in the next few days at Desiring God.  Here is her closing statement:

For now I live with disability.
Disability still says ugly things to me.
Disability is a part of this broken sin-filled world.

But God has so many beautiful things to say.
And so I’m filled with hope.
God’s words grow louder and louder in my life.
The glory of his grace and mercy grow stronger and stronger.

I need to listen to his words.
I want to listen to his words.

God’s words change everything.
God’s beautiful words have changed my life.
And that is how I live with disability.

Krista Horning: Testimony of God’s Good Design from Desiring God on Vimeo.

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Dear fellow worrier. . .

One of the great benefits of the disability conference was having several friends travel to Minnesota.  Dr. Paul Tautges, pastor, author of a bunch of books, and a fellow dad, is one of those friends who I hardly ever get to see.  It was a joy to spend even a few minutes with him.

And he highlighted one of my most difficult sins in a blog post he wrote last Friday.  So I’m copying his entire post here, and commending his blog to you.  Thank you, Paul!

Dear fellow worrier,

If you are a regular reader of this blog then you know that one of my ongoing battles with indwelling sin is in the area of anxiety. As I continue to seek the Lord for sanctifying help in this much-needed area there are a number of thoughts that are proving to be helpful, albeit the progress I make in application is usually slower than I desire.

The following thoughts come on the heels of a discussion I had yesterday with another pastor whom God is using to help me apply biblical truth in order to grow in trusting God rather than myself. I pass them on in simple list form and trust they will be of benefit to you as well.

  1. Anxiety is fear, which is the opposite of trusting God. I need the psalmist’s resolve (Psalm 56:3).
  2. Anxiety is the desire to know what we cannot know and to control what we cannot control. This is why it is accurate to say that anxiety is the opposite of faith (Matt 6:34).
  3. At the moment in which the emotion of anxiety seeks to take control of me I must rehearse trust-building truths about God. God has given me the ability to control my emotions.
  4. When I let anxiety control me then it hinders my obedience to God in other areas, such as Romans 12:10.
  5. God’s prescription for anxiety is thankful prayer (Phil 4:6-7). When I choose to be thankful to God—and look for, and name, specific reasons—my focus is directed to God and, therefore, away from myself.

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The first video from the conference is online!  The DG media team picked a good one to work on first: Krista Horning’s testimony.

Krista Horning – Testimony of God’s Good Design from Desiring God on Vimeo.

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The Desiring God media guys told me that more than 1000 unique devices watched our disability conference live on the web last week.

One of those devices was at a North Carolina church, where about 40 people gathered!

Their pastor is leading that church, Alliance Bible Fellowship, through a series on thanksgiving.  This video is an interview of one of their members.  Though made before our conference, you will hear one of Pastor John’s main points from his conference message in the video below (which, Lord willing, will be available next week):

Thank you, Pastor Burns, for encouraging your people to watch our conference and for blessing me with this video from your church!

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Our video team has had more on their plates than normal, but they are working hard to get the videos from Desiring God’s conference, The Works of God: God’s Good Design in Disability, available on the web.

I am grateful for the many emails and direct messages asking about them.  I’m ready to share them myself!  It could be as early as later today.  If that’s the case I’ll post again here and on twitter.

In the meantime, Pastor John tweeted an interesting quote that got me looking for its context:

“There are hard texts in the works, as well as the word of God.” Flavel

It comes from John Flavel‘s book, Divine Conduct; or The Mystery of Providence, first published in 1678.  The section below comes from pages 155 and 156. Emphasis in bold is mine:

Pry not too curiously into the secrets of Providence, nor suffer your shallow reason to judge and censure its designs.

There are hard texts in the works, as well as in the word of God. It becomes us modestly and humbly to reverence, but not to dogmatize boldly and positively upon them. “When I thought to know this,” says Asaph, “it was too wonderful for me.” “I thought to know this;” there was the arrogant attempt of reason, there he pryed into the arcana of Providence; but “it was too wonderful for me,” it was a useless labor. He pryed so far into that mystery, the afflictions of the righteous and the prosperity of the wicked, till it begat envy towards them, and despondency in himself; and this was all that he got by summoning Providence to the bar of reason.

I know that there is nothing in the word or in the works of God which is repugnant to sound reason; but there are some things in both, which are opposite to carnal reason, as well as above right reason; and therefore our reason never shows itself more unreasonable, than in summoning those things to its bar, which transcend its sphere and capacity. Manifold are the mischiefs which ensure from this practice. By this we are drawn into an unworthy suspicion and distrust of the faithfulness of God in the promises. Hence comes despondency of mind, and faintness of heart under afflictive providences. Hence flow temptations to deliver ourselves by indirect and sinful means.

Beware, therefore, that you lean not too much to your own understanding. Nothing is more plausible, nothing more dangerous.

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I came across one reference to ‘do not fear’ and looked for others. Here are two that encouraged me as many of us are facing hard things in our families:

“I called on your name, O LORD,
from the depths of the pit;
you heard my plea, ‘Do not close
your ear to my cry for help!’
You came near when I called on you;
you said, ‘Do not fear!’
“You have taken up my cause, O Lord;
you have redeemed my life.
(Lamentations 3:55-58 ESV)

“I tell you, my friends, do not fear those who kill the body, and after that have nothing more that they can do. But I will warn you whom to fear: fear him who, after he has killed, has authority to cast into hell. Yes, I tell you, fear him! Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? And not one of them is forgotten before God. Why, even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not; you are of more value than many sparrows. (Luke 12:4-7 ESV)

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I’m reading through a little book handed to me at the disability conference last week and came across several prayers like this one (emphasis in bold is mine):

How to Pray for Your Spouse

If you are the wage earner and your spouse is doing much of the caretaking, the most helpful thing you can do is pray without ceasing. Lift this spouse up in prayer constantly. . . Thank God for your spouse’s willingness to take care of your family while you are away. Be thankful for this partner.

Jeff and Erin Miller, Forever & Always, No Matter What: A Story of Marriage, Autism and God’s Glory, pp. 41-42.

Amen!

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 ESV)

I’m still working my way through this book, mostly because they caught my attention right on the first page of introduction: “This book is written primarily to help you face autism in a way that glorifies God.”

Now that’s a good reason to write a book!

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The Inclusion Fusion web disability summit includes opportunities to ‘chat’ with the speakers online.

I signed up for 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. (Eastern) on Wednesday, November 14 on my topic: why churches should welcome families like ours.

Because it is run through their website, you need to register and then login.  Click on the little button at the bottom of the page labeled ‘Shoutbox Pro’ and you are in.

Lord willing I’ll show up as well, and then we’ll see what God might have for us to talk about.

 

 

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This week Key Ministry is conducting their second annual web disability summit: Inclusion Fusion.

Their theme this year is close to my heart: why church ministries should include people with disabilities.

All of their videos, live-chats and tweet chats are free; simply register and you will have access to videos from more than 30 different speakers.

I was particularly excited to see that Michael Beates, author of Disability and the Gospel, would be participating.  I have read everything I could find that Dr. Beates has published, but had never heard him speak.

There are other friends who are participating, and some folks who are new to me.

I was happy to provide a short presentation on why churches should want families like mine, particularly directed at leaders.

Please pray that God would use this web summit to make much of his name, give courage to churches thinking about this issue, and encourage families like ours!

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As the wicked are hurt by the best things, so the godly are bettered by the worst. — William Jenkyn

Are the godly really bettered?

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.  (Romans 8:28 ESV)

(Thank you to my sweet sister Arlene for pointing to the Jenkyn quote)

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